This may be the fundamental issue with the manosphere ideology in terms of actually improving your life and not being some magazine caricature. Of course the cynicism of the manosphere is certainly not going to help any relationship/marriage either but that's another topic.

When you think of a RPer you think of a try hard. You think of somebody consistently trying to improve themselves, level up their XP, constantly moving forward in a linear fashion. They're in the gym, they're reading books on social skills + attraction, they're trying to get a job in predictable WASP careers (STEM, law, finance) and get promoted. It almost seems like they're trying to live out the script of a Hollywood movie; a movie where the underdog self improves himself to success where everyone is "mirin".

The problem with living your life like a Hollywood movie is that not only it is predictable, it is lame. You have no individuality, you are just a caricature of what magazines tell you the meaning of life is all about. Redpill guys obsess over the movie Fight Club but never remember the scene where Tyler Durden talk about "is that how a real man is supposed to look like" in that self improvement is masturbation scene.

Bluepillers even if you criticise that they're lazy and have little interest in improving their lives at least are less boring. You don't know what they're going to do next. They're also just more chill and less uptight.

I've seen criticisms of RP users here before of the fact that these guys try to be straight edge yet want to have casual sex with sexually libertine women. These women are certainly not abstinent from drugs/alcohol; these women want a guy who's just like them. Not encouraging alcohol/drug abuse here but that's just a reality. You might even ask yourself if having sex with these women is what you really want.

Redpillers would be better off not following a script, taking a deep breath and just taking a step back. It would help in dating and even their careers too because likeability is king in life.