This is probably why I hate it when I hear guys complain about the friend zone. I have yet to see any relationship that was any different from a friendship other than sex and sexual attraction.

Not to say that you shouldnt be heartbroken when your feelings arent returned, because that does hurt. Im just saying you shouldnt discard someone entirely because of that. Im still friends with my crush.

Did it hurt that he found other girls more attractive to me? Of course, I cried like three times, but I never felt that I should end the friendship because of that. I loved him because he’s an amazing person, not merely because he’s cute and charismatic. And no, I’m not hoping that one day he’ll return my affection. I’ve gotten over the heartbreak for years now.