RP: Did anyone of you manage to attract a sweet, nice and kind woman with RP advice? BP: Did anyone of you manage to attract a selfish, horrible and bitchy woman with BP behavior?

Entropy-7 · 2016-05-02T00:41:40+00:00

Just to throw it out there: if guys were not attracting horrible bitches with BP behaviour, TRP would not exist.

LoreSoong · 2016-05-01T19:37:26+00:00

I think it's a "you find what you search for" issue. If you search for a HB10 who fucks you on the first date and doesn't ask too many questions you can't expect to find a phd-engineer which a six-figure income and a vast knowledge.

I mean, you don't do to the grocery store and expect to find your new high end pc there, do you?

drok007 · 2016-05-02T01:00:48+00:00

Yes, acting RP tends to attract women with good temperament. Acting "not-RP" tends to attract shitty, neurotic women.

BiggerDthanYou · 2016-05-01T18:15:42+00:00

I don't think I've ever heard a BPer call them horrible. Insecure, naive, gullible, dumb, shallow, etc. are common things you will hear, but that's just because if you act like a male bimbo you will end up with female bimbos.

But that has more to do with how members of TRP describe women in general. They claim that most women they interacted with behaved a certain shitty way and thus figure that women in general are like that and don't realize that they attract exactly those women.

[deleted] · 2016-05-01T18:53:57+00:00

My girlfriend is fucking perfect for me and she'd have left me after the first date if I followed typical BP/feminist advice. It was the fact I acted super dominant that got her attracted to me in the first place. She told me this herself even.

c_in_macn · 2016-05-01T17:36:42+00:00

I am married to a hot European who treats me like I'm the sexiest motherfucker in the world, but I obviously brainwashed her to be attracted to my toxic masculinity.

tallwheel · 2016-05-01T18:47:57+00:00

BP thinking ruined a lot of relationships for me, RP thinking made my marriage work well. I don't like RP's misogyny or focus on plate-based lifestyle though.

Mynorarana · 2016-05-01T18:00:25+00:00

Redpill doesn't mean asshole. Being both dominant and respectful brings out the best in women because they think you're that much more irreplaceable. As a BP I had two 5 year long relationships with two different women. 1) was kind by nature but we grew up and apart 2) she started believing she belonged on the pedestal I put her on and ended terribly. Being submissive brings out the worst in men or women. They give you an inch then you take a foot.

TheMackFather · 2016-05-02T00:17:08+00:00

RP advice done right will definitely attract the traditional "nice girl," but the problem you face is that by being universally attractive, you let down all your filters and start attracting a huge range of girls, and most girls (and people) are shallow, shitty, awful human beings who will lie, cheat, and generally trash up any relationship. RP guys claim to be able to filter using red flags, but we're our own worst enemy when it comes to filtering since the male hamster is very real.

I attracted a "nice girl" using RP tactics. I even outright explained some of them (though not in RP language) and she completely agreed. This girl is currently 31, lost her V-card at 24, studies at the most prestigious university in the world for her field, is very shy/doesn't have many friends, and has strong family values. She's an absolute keeper. I basically swept her off her feet by passing shit tests (though she threw me very few), being less than subtle about typically being very successful with other women, and lifting/having a muscular body.

I literally explained to her the concept of agree and amplify and she agreed it worked. Basically I said, "Yeah, well whenever you're being kind of an asshole about things and giving me shit, I just take whatever you say and exaggerate it to comical proportions." Her response was something like, "yeah it actually really works when you do that."

Then she admitted she was turned on by the fact that I refused to commit (for the first few months at least, we'll eventually split because of this), didn't care that I dated other girls, was turned on by the fact that I succeeded with other women so easily, and of course loved having a guy with muscles.

I would advocate using RP advice for hookups only. Either be in hookup mode or be in LTR mode. Never go from one to the other. You might attract a cute/innocent girl in hookup mode, but chances are your filter isn't so great. A much better filter is a girl who is attracted to a guy acting the way you typically act with no regard for game at all. This leads to a far less stressful relationship as she's attracted to your natural self, not just the side of you thinking about dread game and shit tests. You want her to be attracted to your natural self, but you want her to know you can turn on the charm when necessary.

BiggerDthanYou · 2016-05-01T18:31:04+00:00

My girl is kind, loving and takes good care of me.

I imagine TRP to be a load of lower middle class White men going into night clubs and drug dens and finding the most badly behaved party girls and emotionally kicking the shit out of them until they fall into line. Even if you successfully create a functioning relationship of this through your own brute force, you're still a degenerate.

pitaenigma · 2016-05-01T18:44:38+00:00

As BP, yes. Evil fucks of all kind can have a lot of fun with people who will do things for them. I was terrified of relationships for years and carried a lot of anger for a long time as a result. If I had found redpill then I might have bought into it.

Fortunately I got over it.

OfSpock · 2016-05-01T21:31:41+00:00

My husband is very Blue Pill. His ex wife was the girl next door. She is from a traditionally patriarchal society and a virgin when they met. She used to scream at him for things like putting his dirty work clothes in the washing machine (she's just cleaned it) and was generally a total bitch. Their marriage lasted two years before she cheated.

However, the guy she cheated with was not Chad. He actually said in the court case that he 'had loved her since first grade' so, in red pill parlance, she left for her beta orbiter. To whom she is still married despite the fact that he cheats on her and vice versa. I'm pretty sure it's because her mother wouldn't be impressed with another divorce. She slapped her on the faced when she found out last time.

NalkaNalka · 2016-05-01T18:30:15+00:00

Yes and hell yes.

On a more funny note, on one ocasion I managed to get both kinds of behaviour out of the same women depending how I was acting blue or red at the time.

BrahYouSerious · 2016-05-01T23:53:37+00:00

Mine is a gorgeous generous sweetheart, she massages me when I get home from work and brings me surprise beer all the time, shes hot AF, and has a count of 2, including me, I got to show her so many new experiences and have such a great time being her rock.

Thanks RP

MissPearl · 2016-05-02T01:59:17+00:00

No, my lady hookups have all been chill, awesome women.

Mynorarana · 2016-05-02T05:46:11+00:00

Those are just the LTR experiences. Any other girls I've dated have just reinforced me moving towards the red side of the spectrum. And that's what it is, a spectrum is all I'm saying. The more you're confident and dominant, treat them with respect, and express your want for both of y'all to be independent the more women respect you and want more.

Someone posted something here earlier about them being tired of guys thinking being a good guy went hand in hand with being blue and i couldn't agree more. It's possible to be respectful, kind, honest, and be on the far end of the red side of things

despisedlove2 · 2016-05-01T18:13:38+00:00

My former BP self says yes to your second question.

My current RP (well, purple) self says "I stopped looking" to your first question.

BiggerDthanYou · 2016-05-01T22:50:26+00:00

I specificaly target good girls using red pill tactics. I define a good girl as a girl with a partner count below 3. I also hear people saying to me "pick up/ red pill only works on sluts/ stupid girls". That excuse is blue pill delusion and stupidity.

Good girls are just as horny and dirty as naughty girls. The way I see it there are extrovert girls and introvert girls. I like both but I prefer introverts with a very low n-count for STR/LTRs. Anyone who thinks that good girls are not dirty in bed is not assertive enough. A red pill man who knows his stuff will turn ANY girl into a mewling, dirty, little cat on heat.

Tom_The_Human · 2016-05-02T01:25:46+00:00

My LTR is pretty good. She has moments of neuroticism and sometimes takes her stress out on me, at which point I just disengage/shut her down.

wazzup987 · 2016-05-02T07:33:21+00:00

BP: nope, because i have good expectations. chicks that are like that naturally avoid guys like me because they know they cant pull that shit so they go find some door mat.

having good boundaries and expectations keeps the rif raf out of your life.

JBrogrammer · 2016-05-03T10:03:21+00:00

Yes, very much so. I'm RP. When I wasn't RP the rare attention I would get from girls I squandered by being weird and creepy because I was inexperienced.

exit_sandman · 2016-05-01T17:51:32+00:00

Dunno whether BP behavior specifically attracts selfish, horrible and bitchy women, but it surely brings out the worst in them.

InformalCriticism · 2016-05-01T17:51:00+00:00

Yes to both; when I was blue it brought out the worst in my ex. The more red I was, the more civil women became with me.

FalkorD · 2016-05-01T22:56:39+00:00

RP saved my marriage.

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tallwheel · 2016-05-02T02:45:15+00:00

Yes to both.

Heathcliff-- · 2016-05-02T10:33:16+00:00

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BPremium · 2016-05-02T14:34:14+00:00

Neither pill has helped much. But when you aren't hot, no amount of pill theory can

kick6 · 2016-05-02T22:08:57+00:00

Yes. The first girlfriend I had after really diving into the red pill was actually a really thoughtful, sweet, and supportive girl who wanted a traditional marriage, and actually bought into most of the philosophy. Although, she rightly assumed that a successful LTR needs a little beta.

[deleted] · 2016-05-02T23:34:16+00:00

i have only used bp advice and i have attracted the worst human beings imaginable still not sure if i will try TRP .

energyvolley · 2016-05-01T18:49:36+00:00

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