The one exception argued could be Alexa/Brennen, and even though she's overweight she still has a pretty face.

Every other couple from "Season 3" that stayed together the woman half was conventionally attractive and thin (Colleen, Raven).

Despite Nancy and Zanab having the most compatible personalities for Barnette and Cole, they simply could not look past the fact they were the "hotter" one in the couple. Especially since they've had hotter women in the past.

Basically, my POV is if you're a woman, you're not going to (on average) get treated right unless you're either the "hotter" one in the couple, or you both are the same level.

Men (on average) don't "grow" attraction through personality and other character attributes like women do if they're not already physically attracted to you. Women can grow attraction to a man they're neutral about in regards to looks, men have to already be positive about your looks for the relationship to be a quality one.

CMV.