I have seen in media and irl the constant trash talking against single men . If woman chooses to stay single she is glorified by the media , if a man does the same then he is looked down up on by the society . Many married men project their misery on to single men . The statistics that married men live longer than single men is false because most women only marries men that looks after their health , so if a single men does the same then he will also live longer it doesn't have to do anything with marriage. Society shame single men by telling them that they will die alone but we all die lonely , a wife cannot change that .Society hates men that decide to work on themselves and become a better version of themselves without marriage .Being single men doesn't make you a loser, the real losers are people who think like this .