I'll post a link to a Chisha Zed video at the bottom of this post. I would classify him as a based MGTOW YouTube aggregator. He brings other peoples' posts into his videos, and then explores that video, and also explores the comments on the video. He's quite cynical. He's not for everyone.
In that video that I am linking below, he is talking about single mothers, and showcases a specific single mother who is having problems dating.
No, this is not a one-off special circumstance. We see this kind of content from single mothers all the time. Seeing this video just made me realize how MUCH I see it, and how normalized this behavior has become.
Being a single mother does not make you special. Yes, you have concerns for the safety of your child - as does any man who would consider dating you. You would have concerns about bonding between the child and the man - and the man would have the same concerns. Those arguments are neutralized.
Single mothers claim that it's hard to coordinate for a date. Sure, I would believe that reason sometimes. But, most of the time, I think it's a lack of proper time-management skills and prioritization. No, I am not saying that the single mother should prioritize some random guy over her child. But, in this case, she said that she only has four free nights a month. Only four free nights...in an entire month. And, she expects to be able to build a relationship on that?
What exactly is she looking for? And, does she actually want it?
So, I think some single mothers tend to use their child as a shield or negotiation tactic, or even an excuse. Until the man and the single mother are in a solid committed relationship, yes, the child is of concern, but it's mainly just the single mother's concern.
Us single non-fathers will use this - as is our right - as a decision factor on whether we want to pursue a relationship with you. The man should be concerned about the single mother's sense of judgment in men and life-decisions, and how she potentially treats men in general.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N9l4OuJ5uLk
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