Over at "Dating Over Forty", there is this gem of a post right now:

" Suppose you had two great dates with a guy and were into him. Suppose date #3 went even better—great conversation, drinks, a few puffs of weed, a light dinner—and you took him back to your place to make out. Suppose the kissing—fully clothed—was as amazing as any you’ve ever felt.

Then suppose he suddenly said he wasn’t feeling well, and then he rushed into your bathroom and clogged your sink with vomit. Suppose you were horrified, and suppose he left overwhelmed by embarrassment.

Dealbreaker, or would you see him again?"