I just saw a top 10 list of HVM traits on fds and now I’m a bit confused. I feel like the goalposts keep getting moved. So if a man is broke despite his hard work and respects those around him (especially women) then he’s now a high value male? What happened to being tall, rich and handsome. Why does the definition keep changing person by person and day by day. If a man is good person but next to 0 women are attracted to him is he still a high value male? Let’s say he doesn’t have high standards or overshoot (like you accuse so many men of doing) and eventually dates the only overweight, unemployed and bad tempered woman in town who will have him but treats her like a queen then is he high value?

Also when they list high value males I’ve noticed they list celebrities who are known cheaters (if you do a background check) or whose personalities they don’t quite know but assume because they’re rich, famous?”, handsome and treat their current partner well. You don’t know how that celebrity treated all his exes or previous partners. So what is it? Is it a virtuous man? a man wanted by a lot of women? a man who will spoil you rotten? Does it matter how he got his money? (you might find your HVM is rich because of exploitative practices). Is he high value if he pumped and dumped other women but you manage to ‘reign’ him in due to your FDS strategies?