1. If you have a great personality women will like you to the point you will sometimes think they are flirting, but the platonic rapport there may exist because she subconsciously thinks there is no way you'd be that stupid to think you have a chance with her
  2. When I clicked with a girl personality-wise other people always teased me if I'm crushing on her, they never asked the girl if she like she's got a crush on me (as if it was obvious from a third person perspective she didn't feel the same)
  3. Other women around you (friends, family, colleagues) may never try to "hook you up" with anyone.
  4. You will discover that you are genuinely funny and that she isn't giggly around you because she thinks you're hot.