I met a woman recently who ended up being a sugar baby and I said I’m not really interested in her anymore. I didn’t really cast any judgement on her at the beginning since to each their own, but it was interesting to see what she said after I said I’m not interested.

She went on a whole rant talking about how every relationship is basically a transaction and how she doesn’t actually get paid for sex but rather because the guy just likes spoiling her. She said that it would be beneath her to be a prostitute.

The amount of delusion here was so hilarious I couldn’t hold back myself from responding. Sugar babies need to stop pretending as if they’re any better than normal prostitutes. They are not. I would argue they are worse. Prostitutes are atleast exceptionally honest about what they’re getting and admit to literally selling their bodies for sex.

Sugar babies often aren’t. They often use “kinks” such as findom or a “spoiling kink” to justify their behaviors which really means taking advantage of lonely men to give them what they want while giving those men what they want. The common response is “well, I’m not taking advantage, the men are deciding this.” Okay, but so are prostitutes, except they’re not making excuses like “the men like spoiling me and I like being spoiled, it’s not for sex”. It’s always about sex. Men don’t actually LIKE giving money to random women unless it’s for sexual reasons.