Obviously since you guys swear theres more to hate on TRP than the tone, some of the advice on TRP must get to you as well.

One of those is "Holding Frame". Holding frame is something anyone should do. It simply means not being a doormat, having confidence in yourself.

Why does holding frame get so much hate from you guys?

I've heard some weak arguments from TBP on this, such as holding frame isn't being authentic. (AKA stay Beta! We only want natural alphas!).