The Differences Between Men Wanting to Fuck Stacy; and Women Wanting to Fuck Chad.

goatismycopilot · 2017-01-13T17:05:33+00:00

Women never said they were not sexually attracted to good looking men. I think what OP is mostly annoyed about is that he did not get to fuck his allotted share of Stacys or altruistically annoyed on behalf of men who did not get to do so. Sure some women want to do Chad, but women do not get into casual sex the way men do. Men would fuck roadkill on a super hot day if they were horny enough. Women are much more indifferent to Chad in general than men are to Stacey because women are not uniformly into casual sex like men, they would not fuck roadkill on a hot day they way men will.

Women are not lying when they say yah not into Chad. Chad has no meaning to them unless they like casual sex. The difference is all men want to fuck Stacy we understand, all men would fuck a bowl of jello. Lots of women screen Chad out and say yah he is hot but I am not gonna. They aren't lying they don't need or want casual sex at the same rate and intensity that men do.

I don't care if men want to fuck Stacy. I don't care if men want to fuck jello or roadkill, go ahead. It has no impact on me, it has no impact on most women. It really only has an impact on Stacy, who probably just needs some advice on how to avoid getting pumped and dumped, and if she gets that advice and ignores it then, all of that is on her.

DarkLord0chinChin · 2017-01-13T15:38:00+00:00

men don't lie about wanting to fuck and liking Stacy. Women, on the other hand, lie through their teeth all the time about wanting to fuck and liking Chad.

using this sub as an example... i have seen men say they'd accept literally any woman who paid attention to them for either a date or ONS, but when the "beauty" opinion threads come up, sub-super model women are called all kinds of demeaning things and deemed too ugly.

men don't hamster wanting to fuck Stacy or actually fucking Stacy. "I fucked her because I liked fucking her, I was horny, she's hot, she was available, she was great in bed, etc."

maybe. i don't doubt someone will be able to counter this, though; men and women alike make excuses for things, like saying that it only matters when women cheat. it's not always rational or even based in fact, but it's human.

Women hamster all the time about wanting to fuck Chad or actually fucking Chad, and especially why they fucked Chad. "It just happened. I don't know why. Yeah he's hot, but he was so nice. I just wanted him to be my boyfriend. I'm looking for a husband.

this really comes down to the women who surround (general) you, and if you're the type that would shame a woman for this kind of thing, it's no surprise that they might have this type of response. except for the last two, and especially the last one; that's a stretch and not what every woman is looking for or trying to get.

women are very, very aware that men like and want to fuck Stacy. Men, on the other hand, are not as aware that women like and want to fuck Chad, because women lie about it, and because all of society helps women lie about it.

if you're not aware, you're not looking. it's obvious to basically everyone, unless you're actually living in a basement or under a rock, that people are attracted to attractive people. the only point you might have here is that generally, women were expected to be more "pure" and not talk about such shameful dirty things like who they wanted to sleep with (or that they did at all), but i don't think it's been like that in the west for a long time, outside of very isolated and/or religious communities. you would have learned about it somehow, somewhere.

most men never get to fuck a Stacy, and have no chance of EVER fucking a Stacy. Most women get to fuck a Chad. Even if she doesn't fuck a Chad by choice, she has had a chance to, and knows that she could if she wanted to.

well i guess this depends on how you're defining Chad. if you're saying that most women have slept with the equivalent of a male supermodel though, you're absolutely incorrect.

women are never shamed for liking and wanting to fuck Chad. Men are mercilessly shamed all over the place for liking and wanting to fuck Stacy.

oh, women are shamed for it. just look at this sub, or TRP. if you don't think the same thing happens in the real world... you don't exist in it, i guess.

TLDR: this is just another "men have it so hard, women get the whole world" TRPy opinion post in response to anyone pointing out that men also do the things that they call women out for. yadda yadda yadda.

darla10 · 2017-01-13T15:34:54+00:00

Women are conditioned from an early age to fit into societal norms. This means dating/marrying a proper man. We are not allowed to express our innate desires. Things are changing a bit (thanks in part to feminism), but we as women, are told our animalistic desires are shameful. Men might be shamed as well, but that doesn't stop them from being upfront about their desires. And society expects it. "Boys will be boys, locker room talk, etc...". Do you actually think women WANT to lie? nope. we are forced to. It took me years to admit I wanted a smart, hot, tall, muscular, ambitious, confident, kind man who was crazy about me. I simply didn't believe I could get it. I didn't believe I deserved it. Just being honest....

Lyanina · 2017-01-13T15:50:12+00:00

I have no problem with men wanting to sleep with Stacy, or women wanting to sleep with Chad. Whatever. But I'll discuss a couple of your claims...

Women, on the other hand, lie through their teeth all the time about wanting to fuck and liking Chad. Women will also lie about whether they've even fucked Chad, when they have fucked Chad and done all sorts of nasty shit with Chad.

Some. Certainly not women as a whole, and I doubt even a majority of women lie about "whether they've even fucked Chad." Why would they? "Slut-shaming" happens, but is generally looked down upon today, and most women wouldn't even want to get involved with a guy who engages in it. Most people also prefer relationships with someone with a similar N-count, or at the very least a similar view of sex, so again, there's not much reason to lie.

Men, on the other hand, are not as aware that women like and want to fuck Chad

Men are not aware that some women like to have casual sex with attractive men? Where are you finding men (or even just people) who are unaware of this?

women are never shamed for liking and wanting to fuck Chad

Could have fooled me.

Men are mercilessly shamed all over the place for liking and wanting to fuck Stacy.

Where? Men wanting to have sex with women they find attractive sounds pretty normal to me. Now, desperately salivating over someone they'll never get a chance with, well yeah, that's kind of embarrassing.

drok007 · 2017-01-13T15:59:41+00:00

Since, I call out /u/sublimemongrel when she does this shit, I'm going to call you out too. /u/Skratt, while ignorant, did not say what you are saying. It's not about fucking Stacy, then you just fall into the BP trap of sameness and it's not correct. In fact, the parallel here would have to be men talking about how they don't like dating crazy chicks, and yet wind up putting up with a crazy Stacy regardless in a relationship.

If you want to make the comparison, that is the sensical one.

Edit: I'll add you specifically called her a sweet and nice, but /u/skratt specifically said she's a bitch.

sublimemongrel · 2017-01-13T16:43:12+00:00

I don't know where women are all lying about wanting to sleep with attractive men. Saying you want a guy who is nice and respectful or whatever isn't saying you want an unattractive guy, that's just what some guys assume for some reason. Even feminist-leaning sites like BuzzFeed have posts on hot guys and a good bit of them are the model/super star looking Chad type.

prodigy2throw · 2017-01-13T15:50:21+00:00

The other thing about women fucking Chads is they never show any agency. It's always "he was manipulative and that's why I had sex with him" or "it just happened because he pressured me"

BiggerDthanYou · 2017-01-13T18:19:03+00:00

men don't lie about wanting to fuck and liking Stacy. Women, on the other hand, lie through their teeth all the time about wanting to fuck and liking Chad. Women will also lie about whether they've even fucked Chad, when they have fucked Chad and done all sorts of nasty shit with Chad.

If "women" lie all the time then why are the social media platforms of the average women that hook up with Chad filled with pictures of her showing off her body and memes like this: 0 1 2 3 4 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 (i could go on all day)

Sexual liberation happened. Sex is no big thing anymore. The women that are open about it and are enjoying the sexual liberation by hopping from cock to cock are generally open about it.

Sure there are also some that lie, but that doesn't mean that your family are all the women that exist.

men don't hamster wanting to fuck Stacy or actually fucking Stacy. "I fucked her because I liked fucking her, I was horny, she's hot, she was available, she was great in bed, etc."

So basically like what many women already do.

Women hamster all the time about wanting to fuck Chad or actually fucking Chad, and especially why they fucked Chad. "It just happened. I don't know why. Yeah he's hot, but he was so nice. I just wanted him to be my boyfriend. I'm looking for a husband.

Or you only remember those times where it happened because you forget things that don't fit into your preconceived world view a minute after seeing them happening.

women are never shamed for liking and wanting to fuck Chad. Men are mercilessly shamed all over the place for liking and wanting to fuck Stacy.

I like those moments of yours the best. You clearly know better what women experience than all women themselves.

Offhisgame · 2017-01-13T15:44:19+00:00

No diff. Women admit to liking chad if you ask them.

[deleted] · 2017-01-13T20:24:38+00:00

Women, on the other hand, lie through their teeth all the time about wanting to fuck and liking Chad. Women will also lie about whether they've even fucked Chad, when they have fucked Chad and done all sorts of nasty shit with Chad.

This is a weird paranoid fantasy that RP seems to be obsessed with. Women want to fuck hot guys. Women also like nice guys. What they are actually looking for is... wait for it... a hot guy who is also nice.

Being hot and being nice are not mutually exclusive.

Being nice and not attractive is tough sledding.

Being attractive and not nice is no deal breaker, but you are typically going to be attracting women much like yourself. Have fun with that.

women are never shamed for liking and wanting to fuck Chad. Men are mercilessly shamed all over the place for liking and wanting to fuck Stacy.

I don't what the fuck this is supposed to be mean. You have hurt free fees because social media said something about guys needing to fuck fat chicks? This is stupid. Stop with the pity party already.

sublimemongrel · 2017-01-13T15:27:45+00:00

What happened to Becky?

theiamsamurai · 2017-01-13T15:59:40+00:00

I fuck anything and have no standards, I'm not like women who are only attracted to a certain top % of men, and I don't get alpha widowered. Sure, most men have more standards than me, but most men are still attracted to most women. Think working class middle aged men - they can swing women 15 years older than them, but they're also attracted to young women like almost all other men are.

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Feeldariddim · 2017-01-13T18:13:48+00:00

my guess is that it's about the preservation of duality. by doing what you're talking about, you can get the joy the physical benefits of getting dicked down by somebody way out of your league while simultaneously enjoy the social benefits that come with virtue signaling via saying that you find that kind of dude gross. This almost always comes with some bullshit rationale that you'd never hear anywhere outside of reddit. It's like when neckbeards talk about how Scarlett Johannson or whatever actress is the flavor of the month isn't all that attractive.

just the other week there was a post here that had some jacked dude next to some skinny fat actor and women who post in this sub were asked to pick who was more desirable. take a wild guess who came out the overwhelming favorite. the best part were the imaginary backstories they all came up with, only one person had the stones to say that she was really just rationalizing because one guy was just too attractive

Macheako · 2017-01-13T19:36:28+00:00

men don't lie about wanting to fuck and liking Stacy. Women, on the other hand, lie through their teeth all the time about wanting to fuck and liking Chad. Women will also lie about whether they've even fucked Chad, when they have fucked Chad and done all sorts of nasty shit with Chad.

For women, their "image" is f--king everything man. Unlike guys, a chick can't really "make up" for all her sexual bull sh-t from before she met you. It doesn't matter if a chick is super cool, or fun to be around, if she f--ked 80 dudes, a LOT of guys are gonna pass her a-- up because "ewww" lol, but yea, that's just the truth of it, so to be fair, women HAVE to lie about it, then again, even when you let women be sluts like modern times they still can't do it their whole life like men lol, so maybe there is some truth to em too :/

Women hamster all the time about wanting to fuck Chad or actually fucking Chad, and especially why they fucked Chad. "It just happened. I don't know why. Yeah he's hot, but he was so nice. I just wanted him to be my boyfriend. I'm looking for a husband.

Again, this is just women trying to keep up their bull sh-t image cause that's all they got. If word got out that homegirl was a total slut, then her chances of being picked up by a "Good Man" drop faster than women's panties when they see no-Tee pic of Thor in Vogue, ya can't hate a frog for doin frog shit man, come on lol you're just starting to sound whiny now.

--women are very, very aware that men like and want to fuck Stacy. Men, on the other hand, are not as aware that women like and want to fuck Chad, because women lie about it, and because all of society helps women lie about it.

Now this part about society helping em, I admit, is COMPLETELY f--ked lol. It's one thing to bull sh-t yourself, to engineer society to HELP you do it???? Oh, you're just a pile of shit lady.

--most men never get to fuck a Stacy, and have no chance of EVER fucking a Stacy. Most women get to fuck a Chad. Even if she doesn't fuck a Chad by choice, she has had a chance to, and knows that she could if she wanted to.

You're being a little too generous here, also, for women, it ain't about sex dude, they want MORE than sex you f--kin neanderthal lol

--women are never shamed for liking and wanting to fuck Chad. Men are mercilessly shamed all over the place for liking and wanting to fuck Stacy

Eh, I sorta agree here too. Then again, I think everyone should be shamed for being a whore lol it's not pretty on either side a the isle

Skratt · 2017-01-13T22:12:15+00:00

My thread is getting all kinds of recognition and I love it!

Probably one of the biggest hits on this sub. Thanks guys :*

jintana · 2017-01-14T05:09:07+00:00

I've never fucked a Chad.

Therefore, I am standing up against men fucking Stacy. If I don't get mine, no one should get theirs.

daveofmars · 2017-01-14T20:30:20+00:00

If women were transparent about their wants and desires then they'd have a lot less power. Women know this all too well, so they employ covert operations to give themselves an advantage. It doesn't just affect sexual relations, but god damn near everything.

As much as that sucks from a guy's perspective, it's perfectly rational for a woman to develop her mystique.

Also, knowing women's secrets is primarily why TRP gets so much flak from women and bloopers. We know what's up and that knowledge is dangerous.

Title	The Differences Between Men Wanting to Fuck Stacy; and Women Wanting to Fuck Chad.
Author	LewisCross
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Date	January 13, 2017 3:26 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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