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The fact that the most offensive thing you could ask a woman about is her age inevitably proves that women are aware of the wall itself

October 11, 2019
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Years ago, when I was at my first internship, I was having a casual conversation with a female coworker on my team. We got to know each other a bit, and then I slipped the question, "How old are you btw?" thinking it was completely appropriate given the development and length of the conversation.

Then she lost her breath and looked extremely shocked, she proceeded to bluntly tell me, "Don't ever ask a woman that again."

I hadn't realized such a basic question was such a horrific crime at the time, after all, the girls my age (17 or 18) at the time didn't give a shit about revealing their age. The fact that such a simple question is considered the most offensive thing you could ask a woman makes me realize that women do believe the wall exists.

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Title The fact that the most offensive thing you could ask a woman about is her age inevitably proves that women are aware of the wall itself
Author banned_by_cucks
Upvotes 280
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Date October 11, 2019 6:12 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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[–]87AudreyHorne77 points78 points  (41 children) | Copy Link

That's also older generation women (not "women of a certain age", l mean same women who used to feel awkward to say they were 30+ and are now 60+... most 35+ of today wouldn't bat an eye). Also slightly cultural. Most European women I know have zero issues with it. Asian women do.

[–]poppy_bluBeware the freight train58 points59 points  (38 children) | Copy Link

A black American woman will happily tell you her age if you ask. Especially if you’re white, cause y’all tend to be off by 10-20 years.

Black don’t crack.

[–]damaskrose 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

People who know they look good for their age are usually proud to tell it.

[–]Jathrowaway9710 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My mother is like this. She looks really young, all the women in the family do. She loves going around bragging that she’s in her 40s whenever people mistake her for my older sister. Same with my grandma when people think she’s the mother of my siblings and I.

[–]washington_breadstixM'gtow17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep. I had an Uber driver recently who was a black woman. I'm a white guy. I would have guessed she was 30-33. She was 46.

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 11 points12 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

She was black πŸ˜‚

[–]Fishyinthemiddle7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Then I guess her comment would be super weird if y'all were where poppy_blu lives. I don't know any women who feel weird about saying their age. It's not rude to ask where I'm from.

[–]poppy_bluBeware the freight train-4 points-3 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

What?

[–]NockerJoeKing Hater13 points14 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

SHE WAS BLACK

You always talk like you have this weird authority about black people even when you're very obviously wrong.

[–]poppy_bluBeware the freight train1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I’ve been black for 44 years. You? Enlighten me with all of your knowledge.

[–]WaterOnMyHood 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy Link

Do you want a price or something

[–]poppy_blu 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

Was I talking to you?

[–]WaterOnMyHood 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

You were acting like you want a price for being black, therefore the question to you.

[–]poppy_blu 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

I was responding to his comment. Had nothing to do with you AT ALL.

Unless you're the same person using alts, which wouldn't surprise me one bit.

[–]Monsae7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I temped with a black woman for a few days who said she was 42 and she looked better than me and I was around 23. I made jokes about her bathing in virgin blood because her face was flawless, like, doll flawless. Yeah, I was off by about 20 years when I guessed her age at my own.

[–]eboy4hire4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I thought you were gonna say: "and she said she actually does bathe in virgin blood." lol

[–]87AudreyHorne1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm being a bit of an asshole though.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Black hides the cracks

[–]AnotherUserName106987 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s more that their skin better protects from UVA rays which is one of the biggest skin agers. Wear your sunscreen people.

[–]nevomintoarcePurple Pill Woman1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

They are born with more collagen and the bones hold up longer.

[–]poppy_bluBeware the freight train1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s actually both

[–]Jathrowaway971 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tbh lol. I didn’t know this was a thing until I started interacting with older Caucasian women. Some would just say it, others would deflect, joke, get offended or whisper it like it’s some shameful thing.

[–]87AudreyHorne0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

Well good for you guys but were also more statistically desirable overall

[–]WhiteBoobs4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s nothing intuitive, you know that right? White people are seen as generally more desirable because of an over saturation of them in media. Western beauty standards seem to have spread around the world. What you’re attracted is pretty much exclusive to your environment.

[–]MsSinisteress2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sis that's a curse. Normal, internet-weirdos chase you. I'm gonna presume Chad is too open-minded to be racist though.

[–]Fishyinthemiddle6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bud, chill. She was just being happy about her skin, not insulting you. You don't have to get so defensive. You can both be pretty.

[–]poppy_bluBeware the freight train6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

πŸ˜‚ What the fuck??

Go have a drink and calm down

[–]Fishyinthemiddle1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Numbers dictate what people are attracted to aparently. I had no idea.

[–]87AudreyHorne1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I thought it was funny because I had that drink :)

[–]RBLXTalk0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you 12?

[–]WaterOnMyHood 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

Black don't crack but they be dumb so who cares.

[–]poppy_blu 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

You're the one making an ass out of yourself here. I'm just going to sit back and let you. Carry on.

[–]ermacmaster0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

It's more of a roll of the dice, same if you are black just a lesser chance. Eminem for example.

[–]poppy_bluBeware the freight train5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

No idea what you’re trying to say

[–]Fishyinthemiddle9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

"Some black people have wrinkles and some white people don't. Sometimes white doesn't crack also, but it's more rare."

[–]oj10911 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most European women I know have zero issues with it. Asian women do.

Exactly. It's a socialisation issue and also, the individual's confidence and character.

We are all going to get old one day. Life brings different stages and transitions.

We shouldn't be talking about "we should never ask a lady her age" but rather why are women so worried about their age? It's because society devalues older people, especially older women. And thus women are made to feel insecure about their age. Because society pretty much says that women are just props to reproduce with. Arbitrarily trying to enforce "you should never ask a woman her age!!" is just imposing that insecurity onto others.

Historically, in tribes, older people were the bearers/carriers of wisdom passed down the generations such as how to forage for food, healing treatments etc. In the recent decades of collective narcissism and ignorance, people think they can learn all that themselves. Especially the younger generation nowadays with the internet. Yes they may be able to do that eventually, but no one person can be everywhere at once. It's much easier and more efficient to listen to other people who gained a lot of life experience and realised those fundemental truths. Of course you should think critically and apply that to your own inner self to fully understand/actualize that knowledge (otherwise they are just conceptual words/ideas) in relation to the way you understand the world to be.

[–]ohheyhi99Conflicted Feminist Man, No Pill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good summary.

[–]WestsideMoonWalkerNot a Negative Creep113 points114 points  (35 children) | Copy Link

Nah. The most offensive thing you can ask a woman is "when are you due?", if it is someone you do not know especially.

[–]poppy_bluBeware the freight train19 points20 points  (26 children) | Copy Link

Being asked this was the catalyst for my overweight friend to take up running and drop 50 lbs.

[–]NiceGuyNumber418 points19 points  (25 children) | Copy Link

And they say fat shaming doesn't work!

[–]mazeforgays1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It doesn't, at least never did on me. I lost weight naturally when circumstances lead me to be generally more active in life. Until that point I was the fat kid. "Shaming" achieved only one thing - I would eat more and gladly in front of the people who had a problem with my weight, completely out of spite. I reveled in their disgust and knowing they can't do shit about my lifestyle gave me this beautiful sense of perverse satisfaction.

[–]Crazy_ManMan 1 points [recovered]  (23 children) | Copy Link

It does not, they might drop the weight, but unless they are dropping the weight for themselves and not from other people's judgement, then they will likely gain it back.

[–]nevomintoarcePurple Pill Woman5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

It works but on people who don't realize how bad they've gotten. Some people delude themselves that "they carry it right" or that their size "is not as bad as others" because being overweight is so common nowadays but as soon as they get enough bad comments they will start to make changes.

[–]Crazy_ManMan0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

You are correct they might make changes from such peer pressure, but if the only reason they are losing weight is because of peer pressure I believe they are likely to gain it back later. I also believe there is a difference between fat shaming and having genuine concern for somebody's health as a close friend, which will have different impacts.

[–]nevomintoarcePurple Pill Woman0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm an optimist and I believe people will stay slim once they see how great slim feels.

[–]Crazy_ManMan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think you are spot on with that belief, and I think that it is possible that that is what often happens when somebody loses weight and keeps it off, but that would mean the peer pressure is not what keeps them slim. They found their reason for doing it for themselves, that is what keeps them concerned for their own health. I think this applies to most if not all change people go through, they find something that makes them want to change. When it is done out of fear of judgement ultimately the person will fault on their path and become who they consciously or subconsciously want to be, but if they do not want to be something, they will get further and further away from that as they change over time. At least this is how I feel it is.

I also think fat shaming does not come from a healthy place. If one wants to shame somebody else for their own personal life choices then from what I have found that comes from a place of hurt inside themselves, a toxic part of themselves that needs healing. They want somebody else to experience negative emotions and take steps to make that person feel those emotions, a desire to do that I feel is inherently not healthy. I think genuine concern and caring would be the healthy way to want a beloved friend or relative to lose weight, because one wants them healthy and happy, not because they want their friend to feel bad for their personal choices.

[–]poppy_bluBeware the freight train1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

5 years later the weight is still off and she runs half marathons.

You have to look at it as not losing weight but changing your lifestyle.

[–]Crazy_ManMan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am guessing it was likely more than peer pressure that kept the weight off though, even if perhaps it might have been on the list of reasons, but I suppose you likely know them better than I. If peer pressure really worked here it is likely the exception not the rule.

[–]weag5lmy mom says I'm special-3 points-2 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

They ALWAYS gain it back. Because calorie counting doesn't work. You will eventually succumb. You are basically starving yourself.

[–]Helmet_Icicle1 point2 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

Woah that's a huge amount of projection to unload there. How did you achieve such a high compression ratio?

[–]poppy_bluBeware the freight train2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think you’re bumping up against people who are defensive because they themsleves don’t want to lose weight.

[–]weag5lmy mom says I'm special-2 points-1 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

? It's just a fact, dude. There's a equilibrium body weight which your endocrine system holds you at. It takes psychological stress to deviate from it. It's also impossible to stay heavier than this weight. There is an experiment with prison populations on this.

The idea that the obesity epidemic is caused by too much food, is baseless propaganda. There is no evidence for this.

[–]Helmet_Icicle3 points4 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

How are you a wizard of delusion with an axe to grind? Did you multiclass or what?

The idea that the obesity epidemic is caused by too much food, is baseless propaganda. There is no evidence for this.

You heard it first here, folks. Obesity is not cased by caloric deficits and thermodynamics is fiction!

[–]weag5lmy mom says I'm special-3 points-2 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

I don't think you have a freaking clue how thermodynamics works. If you did, you wouldn't talk such nonsense.

[–]Spookybear_5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hello I'd like to order a free energy machine

Do you ship internationally?

[–]Helmet_Icicle2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Fortunately, you have demonstrated that what you think has no value to anyone, including yourself.

[–]Crazy_ManMan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am not sure if I see enough evidence for this. I used to be chronically underweight (not related to mental illness), now I am not, plenty of obese people lose weight and do not gain it back, some of them that I personally know. One just has to change their lifestyle rather than follow fad diets and lose weight fast programs.

[–]katymarxPurple Pill Woman18 points19 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

A close friend of mine got that question from a co-worker and she reported her to HR. Now THAT is a serious violation of FSM code. She stewed about it for months. She was just wearing an flowy empire waist blouse too, she doesn't look remotely pregs.

[–]nevomintoarcePurple Pill Woman11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That escalated quickly. I used to like those tops in highschool because they emphasise your boobs and was asked about being pregnant often. :(

[–]geygesπŸ‡20 points21 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

serious violation of FSM code

Yea I got an excerpt right here:

1.1 You can only ask about pregnancy when the woman is pregnant

1.2 Any queries regarding pregnancy during non-pregnancy are considered hostile acts

1.3 Read on for 1 million more illogical unspoken rules of our whimsical gender

[–]katymarxPurple Pill Woman0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

It has nothing to do w pregnancy, it's about being perceived as fat.

[–]geygesπŸ‡2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

pregnancy and kids is a touch subject for single ladies or ladies trying to conceive... or otherwise trying to avoid to conceive. I mean the whole reproductive subject is a minefield.

[–]katymarxPurple Pill Woman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah. Bitches have no problem talking about pregnancy and kids to us single bitches. Someone you know is having trouble conceiving, that's more about overall sensitivity to someone's struggles and not rubbing it in their face and can apply to a number of touchy subjects.

[–]diffdedbedGreen Eyed Devil69 points70 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

It used to be never ask a woman her age. This was before obesity became a protected class.

Now the most offensive thing is her weight.

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Aha lol

[–]M4sterDis4sterMediterranean9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It really depends on the situation. Why I wouldnt ask a girl I am dating what is her age ? If someone is looking for something long term or permament, want to have kids, then her age is probably No#1 question.

Now, if you walk random at streets and ask random strangers about their age, it is a bit off, but it is defintely not offensive.

[–]Nevidimka-43 points44 points  (19 children) | Copy Link

When people here say, "the wall does not exist" they mean, "this concept that trp build around aging is not or not entirely correct ", they don't deny 100% that aging has any impact.

There are debates here on the impact of the wall, there are debates here about the exact age, but no one is actually denying age has any impact. If they were, they'd argue there's no difference between dating a 60 year old and a 25 year old, and I've never seen anyone here argue that.

[–]garbageplay17 points18 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I feel like I'm in the minority around here in wanting to find a companion I can grow old with. I tend to get pretty blinded by love and by the time any sort of wall exists for my hypothetical future wife I imagine I'll be too old and wrinkly to care anyway. By that point I imagine family will be our priority anyway.

[–]violetbiscottipurple karate2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree.

[–]DaphneDK42TEMC (Trans Exclusionary Male Chauvinist)3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

That's wife googles. They defy the wall.

[–]SunflowerBurst1 in 12 Americans is unaware that the bird is the word3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Do wife goggles not exist between married couples who meet late or on their second marriage then?

[–]DaphneDK42TEMC (Trans Exclusionary Male Chauvinist)-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Married couples that meet later typically have a much larger age gap (with the bride being relative younger than the groom) than couples who meet in the 20s. The wife googles exists for couples who are together and already have created strong bonds. It does not exists for the formation of the relationship.

[–]SunflowerBurst1 in 12 Americans is unaware that the bird is the word2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Right but say two divorced people or widowed around the same age meet at 50 or so and marry. Are you saying at 60 the goggles won’t exist? Rp heavily implies wife goggles only exist for women who married young.

[–]DaphneDK42TEMC (Trans Exclusionary Male Chauvinist)-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't know what rp says. I think it says never to get married. I think wife googles exists for all ages. Its just love. It takes time to grow, but once there your love for her makes her beautiful. But the point is that the 50yo guy is less likely to fall for and marry the same aged 50yo woman in the first place, than the 23yo guy is to marry his same aged 23 yo girlfriend. It does happen, but age gaps absolutely rise with the age of the new couples.

I also don't believe older couples have the same strong bond. There is something about a young couple growing up together, first real job, buying their first house, having their first kids, etc. - which older couples won't experience together. They just won't have that many important experiences together. Shared life altering moments brings humans together.

[–]Mr_SmoogsThe 2nd most obnoxious poster here2 points3 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Copy and paste the definition TRP uses for the wall.

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot4 points5 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

she said concept not definition. a concept can be something that shows up consistently in ongoing conversations and doesn't have one single definition

[–]Mr_SmoogsThe 2nd most obnoxious poster here2 points3 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

The question still stands. How does TRP define the concept?

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot6 points7 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Generally that women experience a steep decline in attractiveness in their 30s that heavily impacts their ability to secure a long term partner

[–]Mr_SmoogsThe 2nd most obnoxious poster here3 points4 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Okay, I don’t really understand the rejection of it then. Why would you reject the idea that women experience a decline in their attractiveness? Women obsess over makeup products to literally conceal the effects of age.

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot9 points10 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

most dont reject that aging is associated with a decline in physical attractiveness, we reject that its as steep as described in trp or that it heavily impacts a woman's ability to get a quality long-term partner

[–]Mr_SmoogsThe 2nd most obnoxious poster here2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

You reject the steepness aspect as it’s described? I think it contributes but is not the sole reason. The supply-side market forces are a greater factor; a majority of the quality men at that age are already taken or have baggage (making them not-quality).

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

yes i reject all of that lol

[–]Mr_SmoogsThe 2nd most obnoxious poster here4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

You reject the idea that quality men come off the market as they age?

[–]sparksjoy 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

Trust me, they get equally annoyed when girls ask. I went to an all-girl school and it was common knowledge that asking our teachers for their ages would get us chewed out.

If this were about the so-called wall why would they gaf if a girl asks them.

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Because their beauty is how they are primarily perceived and judged, and their precise age will affect their beauty generally.

Women will doll themselves up just to piss off other women. It's basically the female version of flexing on each other.

[–]sparksjoy 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't see why women in their 40's and 50's would want to flex on 14 to 17 year-old girls.

[–]NockerJoeKing Hater1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of people have arrested development. The kind of person who voluntarily hangs around teenagers for work probably are more likely to be this way.

I had a history teacher who was at least in her 50's if not 60's and she'd dye her hair and doll herself up. So did a few of the others. When you spend 8 hours a day staring at that big an age gap it does funny things to the mind.

[–]mandoa_sky4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Really? I’ve met many guys who get offended by both age and income questions - and I have to ask these questions as part of my job πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Income I can understand, age I've never really seen a guy get upset over it. Maybe provide more context?

[–]mandoa_sky2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

i'm a real estate agent. i work at booths. it's part of the info gathering part of the job.

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Well whenever you see a man as such, tell him to stop being a little bitch and accept reality.

Jk, don't do that, but honestly I feel like it's a much, much smaller percentage of men that care relative to women about this sort of thing. You also didn't really delineate whether they were getting upset about the age distinctly or the income and age.

[–]mandoa_sky1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

well all i do know is that it happens quite a bit. but is is necessary info re helping them with mortgages and things like that

on a personal level, it's happened a few times re the age thing via OLD, especially when i comment that the age they put and their photo doesn't seem to match.

[–]FaraunLoveShady0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Just sell property to young Chads bro.

[–]mandoa_sky0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

most young chads i meet are too poor for a house, lol

[–]FaraunLoveShady0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, social mobility a pain in the ass for most young dudes. More and more are becoming NEETs instead of working going to college.

NEET is comfy. NEET is cool. NEET is free from work and school.

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot14 points15 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Lol come to new york and no one of any gender wants to talk about their age after 28 and its considered a pretty weird/tacky question

and why do men here keep saying that women are ignorant about aging being a bad thing for women? lol

[–]ToraChan23Red Pill Man6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

and why do men here keep saying that women are ignorant about aging being a bad thing for women? lol

Same reason women here keep saying the incorrect things they believe about men.

Men and women in this sub have these assumptions in their head and apply it to everybody, then make topics about it hoping to get people to confirm their skewed thoughts

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh idn, the billion dollar make up industry and anti aging creams

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

ur saying that a billion dollar antiaging industry means that women dont know that aging is a bad thing for women?

[–]NockerJoeKing Hater0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

and why do men here keep saying that women are ignorant about aging being a bad thing for women? lol

Because that's become this weird narrative on it's own. There's always an article somewhere each week about some blogger or columnist who interviews a bunch of "amazing" 30+ women who wonder why the well dried up. There's always also some woman who just turned 30 and is wondering why their matches on OLD have been drying up. There's also invariably women who try to keep the party lifestyle up into their 40's or more until they suddenly can't get into any clubs no matter how good their makeup is or how many squats they've done.

Most women probably know. But there's a very specific party girl barfly type who's used to men doing all the romantic legwork and is thus totally adrift once their age begins with a 3 or 4.

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot6 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

actually they usually cite the same four articles written over a decade by click driven lifestyle journalists who, like you said, aren't reflective of women in general

[–]NockerJoeKing Hater-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

When I say every week I'm including no-name local columnists and blogs no one reads. The same four articles are just the stuff people actually read beyond mocking.

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

how do you find these articles?

[–]NockerJoeKing Hater-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Reading my local paper, sometimes browsing that sub, sometimes just googling around just to get a feel for how common those articles are.

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

that is...something. thanks

[–]flamingoinghomeIs three lizards in trench coat20 points21 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

a.) Men get weird if you ask them their age too.

b.) 17 and 18 year olds are literally children.

c.) It's not the most offensive thing. Not by a long shot.

[–]Mountain_Fever4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

18 year olds are adults where I come from. Even 16 year olds have plenty of autonomy. They just can't drink, smoke weed or vote. I think they should lower the voting age to 16, but the alcohol and weed can stay how it is-19.

[–]flamingoinghomeIs three lizards in trench coat1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Agreed on the voting age--but where I'm from, 16 year olds don't even have property rights, let alone voting. You're Canadian, I take it?

[–]Mountain_Fever1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am. I count myself quite lucky too.

[–]diladusta11 points12 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Lol can't imagine any guy i know giving a single fuck. I get asked how old i am all the time

[–]AggravatingTartlet5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

lol can't imagine any guy i know giving a single fuck. I get asked how old i am all the time

Go on a dating site as a woman. You will soon encounter many men lying about their ages.

[–]jeralte-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Men and women have different motivations for lying about their age though, men do it to meet younger women whereas women do it bc they’re self-conscious about it. I think the parent comment was saying men don’t really give a fuck about their age in the sense that they’re not embarrassed to talk about how old they are.

[–]AggravatingTartlet3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's the same reason.

Men and women both want to look better in the eyes of others, especially the opposite sex. Men are feeling the pressure at work and to get the women they want - and they want to be younger.

[–]historyhillBlue Pill Wife8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

But, like, I can't imagine any women who are in my generation giving a crap either about being asked their age. Maybe it will change, but this notion that women care about their age seems antiquated from my personal experience.

[–]diladusta4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah if it is true she is just crazy. I have yet to meet these hyper sensitive women people on reddit are talking about

[–]NockerJoeKing Hater0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

How old are you?

[–]historyhillBlue Pill Wife0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

28, so I think I'm right at the point where theoretically women would be most sensitive to their age because of the impending "wall." But most don't care and I don't either!

[–]flamingoinghomeIs three lizards in trench coat2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've had guy friends literally refuse to answer.

[–]red-priestess≧◑≦9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It is more old women who dont want to be asked their age because that is an old fashioned thing. I doubt its because of "the wall" but rather because if you were not married by like 25, youd be considered a spinster. Now i think its just perpetuated by people who had it ingrained in them to just not ask. Just like income. Ive dated many foreigners and theyd ask about income no problem, but in america it is a huge no no. Studies actually show people would rather be honest about their drug use than income.

Its just culturally ingrained for no reason that it is rude to ask. If you go to another society thats not the west where age is valued, they'd happily tell you how old they are.

[–]PennnyLameMY VAGINA IS A SOVEREIGN NATION!! ✊🏼23 points24 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I can think of about 17 things more offensive to ask a woman. But really asking anyone’s age just kinda sounds immature akin to β€œWHAT GRADE ARE YOU IN?”

[–]NockerJoeKing Hater8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

But really asking anyone’s age just kinda sounds immature akin to β€œWHAT GRADE ARE YOU IN?”

Not gonna lie my 6'4 ass wants to pull that off now. Just full on hands on the knees hunched over condescending.

[–]PennnyLameMY VAGINA IS A SOVEREIGN NATION!! ✊🏼2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

DO IT!!!!

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It's not a conversation starter, but if it's in the middle of a conversation and was directly relevant to the context of the subject being discussed in that convo at the time?

I highly doubt a single grown ass man would lose his shit in the same manner she did.

[–]PennnyLameMY VAGINA IS A SOVEREIGN NATION!! ✊🏼16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well frankly she sounds weird and dramatic.

I highly doubt a single grown ass man would lose his shit in the same manner she did.

Go to a gay bar.

[–]DefNottheMI68 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well frankly she sounds weird and dramatic.

Agreed

Go to a gay bar.

Agreed

[–]geygesπŸ‡2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

β€œWHAT GRADE ARE YOU IN?”

Do you default to "I'm a senior"?

[–]PennnyLameMY VAGINA IS A SOVEREIGN NATION!! ✊🏼4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah- I usually just compliment their rolling backpack and notebook of human emotions with identifying labels.

[–]philomexaSPITE ALONE HOLDS ME ALOFT19 points20 points  (25 children) | Copy Link

I like telling people my age, cause I always get the follow up "no, really? you don't look a day over ___"

I'd probably feel different if that quip stopped coming tho.

When have women ever denied we were concerned about aging? The entire skin care and beauty industry is built around this concept.

There are far more offensive things you could ask a woman, I'm not sure why you think age is some taboo topic based off one conversation you had with a coworker.

You don't talk to many women do you?

[–]poppy_bluBeware the freight train3 points4 points  (20 children) | Copy Link

They don’t know any black women

[–]violetbiscottipurple karate3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

They don’t know any black women

What's the most offensive thing you could ask a black woman?

[–]TheLaughingMelon2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Who's the father?

[–]poppy_bluBeware the freight train1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This comment is asking for trouble

[–]violetbiscottipurple karate2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My gf is black. I'm wondering how different her answer will be.

[–]philomexaSPITE ALONE HOLDS ME ALOFT0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

TouchΓ©.

[–]DaphneDK42TEMC (Trans Exclusionary Male Chauvinist)-3 points-2 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

Blacks age the same as whites. Especially since blacks tend to be so fat, and fat is the great ager. Asians are the great non-agers. Until one day they wake up and suddenly look like old super short grandmas.

edit. lol triggered the black chicks.

[–]AnotherUserName106984 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah, it’s just that you’re wrong. Black people age more gracefully because the melanin in their skin protects from UVA rays, the biggest skin ager. Also, fat smooths out wrinkles, wrinkles are more obvious in thin people.

[–]poppy_blu 1 points [recovered]  (11 children) | Copy Link

Whatever helps the short small dick Asian guy sleep at night

[–]DaphneDK42 1 points [recovered]  (10 children) | Copy Link

The great thing about being white in Asia, is that you get to destroy small Asian pussy optimized for small Asian dick.

[–]poppy_blu 1 points [recovered]  (9 children) | Copy Link

Or no one notices just how small your dick actually is because you're in a sea of small dicks. You're probably on to something there.

[–]DaphneDK42 1 points [recovered]  (8 children) | Copy Link

lol Yeah whatever. It's not like I care either way.

[–]poppy_blu 1 points [recovered]  (7 children) | Copy Link

You cared enough to try and race bait me though, didn't you?

If you're gonna dish, learn how to take it like a (small dick) man or STFU.

[–]DaphneDK42 1 points [recovered]  (6 children) | Copy Link

I race bait? You are the one who brought up race out of the blue. Apparently you felt the need to point out that you think blacks are superior to whites. I merely corrected your misconception. If you want to make it about racial superiority, learn to take it like a (hanging tit) woman or STFU.

[–]poppy_blu 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy Link

Here's how the conversation went since you seem to have a problem with your memory or your reading comprehension (or both):

Philomexa said people are always surprised at how young she looks. She doesn't hestiate to tell people her age and doesn't think most women do either. She wants to know what type of women OP hangs out with to get this impression.

Poppy said clerarly they dont know any black women. Black women are not shy about sharing our age because we always look very young in comparison to white women (which was said in another comment).

You: Nooooo! Not true!!! Black women are fat!!! Nany, nany, nah, nah!!! Haha, I "triggered the black chicks."

Serisouly, why are Asian men on this board so hostile to black people? Is it the small dick thing? or is that you just have to lash out at everyone for any reason because you're miserable?

I seriously don't understand it. I have zero problems getting aloing with Asian people IRL. I really would like to know what's behind it.

[–]-TheGreasyPole-Pissed Off that Reddit Admins killed my old account[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

OK, you can stop slap fighting now. Thanks.

[–]Cavendishelous 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

Lol okay. β€œNever ask a woman that ever again.” This is a pretty intense statement and we’ve all heard it. Don’t condescend to OP and act like an ignorant little shit who has never heard that phrase before.

[–]philomexaSPITE ALONE HOLDS ME ALOFT8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

OP's hyperbole deserves condescension.

[–]Cavendishelous-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Nah, you’re using condescension to try and invalidate his entire post because you think it’s offensive to women or something.

[–]philomexaSPITE ALONE HOLDS ME ALOFT6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

πŸ˜‚ OP's post should be invalidated because its a dumb take on a silly and outdated social maxim.

[–]ginwithbutts12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Well, maybe it's because they know men judge women based on age because men believe in the "the wall."

[–]wtknightGen X Slacker1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

But if men do believe in the wall, then it does exist in some sense, even if it doesn't exist in women's minds.

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Men believe in what they can see with their eyes β€” whether it be a smooth face or a wrinkly one.

[–]Biden_Wins_20205 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Any conservative or traditional culture is acutely aware of the wall. It's only in soft, nerf western society where feelings are the primary focus that it's not. Although over 25 (the Christmas cookie) or whatever is no problem, it's once you get to ~40 where it's a problem

[–]wtknightGen X Slacker1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

In Asian societies the wall tends to be seen as at 30 rather than 40, based upon what I've read and experienced.

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Which is ironic because Asians generally age pretty well, but I think in this case it's particular to fertility.

[–]FlavFal31F4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a funny topic. All of my male friends had a mini existential crisis when they turned 30, I dealt with it much better than all of them. I'm always telling people my age and every time I don't wanna do something I say "I'm too old for this" and I'm always telling people about how things were "different back in the stone age when I was a teen".

[–]Almondxxx7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know. Women are aware of the wall since I’m sure they were told youth is powerful blah blah through out their whole life. They don’t all necessarily believe it but apparently some men claim age is a defining factor for a women (eye roll.) Which is why we lie about age. But men suffer from aging too. We all do. It just happens. Like we all can’t be 23 forever. Essentially that would get quite boring!

My mom shaved off 10 years since she was 15 years older than my father. She damn well fooled me until my older brother figured out the real year she was born! She looks 10 years younger and a classy broad! Compared to my dad lmao.

This was a long post. I do have to add I personally think it’s a welcomed challenge to age beautifully. Take care of yourself. See what you can do to make yourself your best self! I see beautiful men and women well into their 70s. It’s really great.

[–]LeanLoner2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Like we all can’t be 23 forever. Essentially that would get quite boring!

Picture a world like that. Eventually overpopulation grows to such insane levels the governments can't enforce any semblence of order. Then we just start murdering each other. Doesn't sound that boring though.

[–]Almondxxx1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

lol would be interesting and scary. Survival of the fittest.

Oh wow. We would all really be pressured to staying fit!

[–]Orange_PaisleyOrange pill is best pill6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The most offensive thing you could ask a woman is her weight.

[–]DaphneDK42TEMC (Trans Exclusionary Male Chauvinist)6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think asking about her cup-size, masturbation regiment, or the fishy smell from her twat is more inappropriate in a work setting.

[–]buarthaDelights in homosexuality2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is one of those things that I hear about people caring about much more than I actually see them caring about it. While I agree that it's seen as a bit rude generally, when I've seen it be asked of anyone around my age (think 20-40) they just answer and above that the women usually just chuckle and make some sort of non-committal comment.

[–]Yonderlander2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I think that harks back to RPs golden age of 50s culture, not so taboo now.

[–]EspressoCappuccino1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They probably arent aware of the wall because of all attention they are getting. However, some women are still fucking beautiful in their 40s. For some the wall happens waaay later. But for most it does happen before they can take it, thats why they settle.

[–]maljo241 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nothing to do with a wall. Everything to do with vanity.

[–]throwawayemotions341 point2 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

Lol how is that offensive?

I love that question - but probably because at 26 I still get that I look 18-19 so...

[–]iLLprincipLeS 1 points [recovered]  (14 children) | Copy Link

but probably because at 26 I still get that I look 18-19 so

They're just being nice.

[–]throwawayemotions340 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy Link

Strangers who have no relevance to my life and need nothing from me have no reason to just be nice. Esp since majority of these interactions are them being inquisitive on my age and proclaiming I am younger. So try again.

[–]iLLprincipLeS 1 points [recovered]  (12 children) | Copy Link

Strangers who have no relevance to your life and need nothing from you have no reason to NOT BE NICE. Complimenting an older woman and telling her she is younger than her age is one of the oldest compliments a stranger can make in the modern world. It's the same like someone asking a woman if her baby is a boy or girl and then telling her how sweet the baby is.

[–]throwawayemotions340 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy Link

Buddy... Nobody is "complimenting me" they are genuinely curious and very surprised. They have no reason to walk up to me randomly and say "wow u look so young" my family has amazing genes. My parents are 60 and look 40's.

But I get it. In your rp mind you think all women 25+ re shriveled up old women. Sorry u don't get compliments dude, black don't crack.

[–]iLLprincipLeS 1 points [recovered]  (10 children) | Copy Link

Sorry u don't get compliments dude

You had to go there dindn't you, sweety.

black don't crack.

Now it makes even more sense. No one wants to upset a black woman in today's politically correct world.

In your rp mind you think all women 25+ re shriveled up old women

White women, yes. I don't pay much attention to black women. And lets be honest how many black women look like that black woman from AHS, most of them think they look like that and "don't crack" but in reality as they age they end up like the black female founder of metoo.

[–]throwawayemotions340 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy Link

Oh sweety. Your racism is showing, not a good look. I'm not the "stereotypical" black women you speak of in American that are protrayed on the TV. I'm not even American LOL

Now it makes even more sense. No one wants to upset a black woman in today's politically correct world.

Meaning what?

In what type of context do you assume race dictates the conversation of age. People in skin care don't care about your feelings, they will tell you you look old so you buy more products. Why would someone tell me I look young and don't need their products? Why do the people who ask for ID do so for fun or to be nice but not IDs of others? Why did I get stopped at my sister's HS graduation by the coordinator to ask if I need help knowing where the graduates sit and if I need a gown. So many more bro. Not just "oh how old r u? 26. OH WOW U LOOK 18." to sugarcoat shit.

Sorry I can't support your claims.

[–]iLLprincipLeS 1 points [recovered]  (8 children) | Copy Link

I'm not the "stereotypical" black women you speak of in American that are protrayed on the TV.

I'm sure you're not like those other girls, you're special, you're that (every) girl that thinks she looks younger than she is.

I'm not even American LOL

I'm not american either. This is not about americans, this is about women. AWALT

Your racism is showing, not a good look.

See, this is what would happen if a stranger would tell you the truth, you would accusse them of racism. It is no wonder they would not tell you the truth, think about it. If we were face to face and even if you looked 30 at your 26 I would do the same as the other strangers and tell you that you look younger to avoid the racism claim.

People in skin care don't care about your feelings, they will tell you you look old so you buy more products. Why would someone tell me I look young and don't need their products?

Holy fuck this only gets better. They will compliment you to make you like them and buy their products.

Why would someone tell me I look young and don't need their products?

WOW. It's a sale tactic.

Why do the people who ask for ID do so for fun or to be nice but not IDs of others?

You mean bouncers at the club or what? It's a PUA tactic.

Why did I get stopped at my sister's HS graduation by the coordinator to ask if I need help knowing where the graduates sit and if I need a gown.

You probably looked lost.

So many more bro. Not just "oh how old r u? 26. OH WOW U LOOK 18." to sugarcoat shit.

Ok. You can believe whatever makes you feel better about yourself. Maybe it's true, maybe it's not. But it would be a shame if you really could not tell that strangers were just trying to be nice.

[–]throwawayemotions340 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

See, this is what would happen if a stranger would tell you the truth, you would accusse them of racism. It is no wonder they would not tell you the truth, think about it. If we were face to face and even if you looked 30 at your 26 I would do the same as the other stranger and tell you that you look younger to avoid the racism claim.

Buddy.. you came to me saying that black women look like the ones in AHS, you don't pay attention to black women because you probably believe they are ugly and no one wants to upset black women because of the angry black women stereotype. I didn't CLAIM anything, you said it lmao. That's like me saying "oh chinese? Nah they are smelly trash, with small dicks and can't see but i am not racist"

Holy fuck this only gets better. They will compliment you to make you like them and buy their products.

That's counter productive. You must not understand sales. I walked out of there with nothing. Im not gonna buy a product that I don't need BC the person was nice ... If that's how you shop you're dense and doing it wrong.

ok. You can believe whatever makes you feel better about yourself. Maybe it's true, maybe it's not. But it would be a shame if you really could not tell that strangers were just trying to be nice.

I'm not even going to address the rest of your little speech because I obviously know when people are just trying to be nice.

Your triggered and it's your insecurity and lack of confidence in yourself that shows me that you probably really don't know what is like to be genuinely complimented by people and they mean it. And or, it has never happened to you so you don't see how people can do it without an ulterior motive.

You're a sad guy lol. No wonder you're on here.

[–]iLLprincipLeS 1 points [recovered]  (6 children) | Copy Link

I obviously know when people are just trying to be nice.

You obviously do not know.

[–]Mountain_Fever1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I enjoy telling people my age. I'm 35. People are regularly shocked. They usually don't believe I'm "old enough" to have three kids yet. But I didn't even start really early, I just look like I'm still in my mid-late 20's.

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Very few women (and men, though I'd say to a lesser extent with men) take care of themselves well.

[–]Mountain_Fever0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's genetic for me. My mom, sister opa and oma are all the same in this way.

[–]heycool-1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s silly that the age question is seen as so offensive.

[–]Vegetas_HaircutDrugs are bad; don't take pills.1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I have never in my life encountered this mythical "never ask a woman for her age" maxim; it's something sometimes seen in fiction.

In general if you ask, you'll get an answer.

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I dunno we live in a clown world where everyone is ultra-sensitive.

Where are you from?

[–]Vegetas_HaircutDrugs are bad; don't take pills.0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Netherlands, I guess that's a place noted for its lack of sensitivity and rudedirect population.

[–]TheLaughingMelon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminists want to know your location

[–]katymarxPurple Pill Woman3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I think it's a stupid remnant of old times and annoys the shit out of me when women get all triggered by age and proclaim to be 21 repeatedly..I keep it inside tho because most of my girl friends are like that and I have to maintain my already lowly rank in the FSM

If I didn't look so damn good for my age i might think differently lol

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

FSM?

[–]LeadInfusedRedPillπŸ• Woof πŸ•2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Female social matrix I believe

[–]DefNottheMI61 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

!remind-me 1 hour

[–]Aaren_AugustineWants a Cookie4 points5 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

You were too direct.

If you were playing poker with a bunch of men, you'd be the dude asking to see people's hands before placing the bet. And they'd all give you shit for being naΓ―ve enough to ask.

Part of the whole "he needs to just get it" is to understand and dance to women's indirect nature.

[–]Emervila3 points4 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

he needs to just get it .

She just doesn't get it, he doesn't care about her BS... not all men will comply to shit testing.

women's indirect nature.

What's this? are you incapable of the direct logical conversation by nature?

[–]Aaren_AugustineWants a Cookie4 points5 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

It would be great if TRP was actually interested in being fun. They'd get laid a lot more and not seem so Red Pill Rambo. There's a time to not give a shit or not put up with her bullshit. I've had women at work that would go out of their way to tell me shits about to go down.

But I get it, tons of dudes have to learn to be assertive before they work on being entertaining.

[–]Emervila0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy Link

But I get it

No, you don't. Tons of dudes won't comply with shit testing some will get sex with other females some won't but it's their choice to love themselves more than pussy

We do get we are clowns for women hence we have to be entertaining BUT clowns can perform in several circuses not just one.

Making such a drama out of a simple question "age" coming from an strong independent sexual liberated women is a hell of a turn off. Men need to learn sure but also women need to learn 2019 is the year or "zero entitlement" you can't demand anything from people. If a simple question like age makes a woman offended that's serious mental damage, we no longer follow this toxic masculinity thing where females were shamed bc their age, they are free now.

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot7 points8 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

this isn't about "getting pussy" its about just getting along socially without being a clunky awkward weirdo. its his coworker not a date

[–]Emervila-1 points0 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

ever worse then, why such drama. Why men can ask something so simple? bc even outside "sex interest" women still expect men to comply with their bs dance which is not happening anymore

β€’βŽ³β€’ weirdo!

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot6 points7 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

there are all sorts of little social rules we all follow to get along and convey tact and respect

the majority of men who are well socialized also expect you to follow the these rules. people who don't come off as either rude or socially awkward and people generally dont want to hang out with people like that even platonically

[–]Emervila0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

"How old are you btw?"

"Don't ever ask a woman that again."

why was it rude or awkward? so OP is socially awkward for asking this question.

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

thats really not a question adults just ask each other casually. especially in the workplace

[–]decoy88Black Male in London-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

yeah some of those social rules are downright stupid and shouldn't be supported.

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

and yet here we are

[–]decoy88Black Male in London0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well society has got rid of many stupid social rules already so there's precedent

[–]NockerJoeKing Hater1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Seconding this. At the end of the day shit tests imply you have to take shit from people. If I don't want to fuck you or even if I'm on the fence I'm not gonna play that game.

[–]Aaren_AugustineWants a Cookie2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

We do get we are clowns for women hence we have to be entertaining BUT clowns can perform in several circuses not just one.

You know, in my time with TRP and MRP, it was clear that men were so angry "being entertaining" translated to women being entertained as if you were a clapping fucking monkey. Which isn't the case.

And they look at Amused Mastery as if it were an act, rather than an opportunity to both be entertained and be entertaining.

BUT clowns can perform in several circuses not just one.

Yeah, they laugh at dudes standing on soap boxes too. This is the kind of speech they go to TRP to laugh at.

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't remember what the segue was at the time, but the question was definitely very relevant to the context of the subject of the conversation at the time.

[–]Aaren_AugustineWants a Cookie1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So is knowing everyone's hand. But they aren't going to tell you and be annoyed you aren't playing.

[–]WhisperTotally LARPing. Really.1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The most offensive thing?

Sure, some women don't like to tell, but don't you think they get more upset if asked about weight or sexual history?

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I would never ask about those things in a workplace context.

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[–]LifterofThingsDelicate Feminine Flower1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The multi-billion-dollar industry built around anti-aging products is also a subtle hint.

[–]FrontStable 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

I hadn't realized such a basic question was such a horrific crime at the time, after all, the girls my age (17 or 18) at the time didn't give a shit about revealing their age. The fact that such a simple question is considered the most offensive thing you could ask a woman makes me realize that women do believe the wall exists.

Does anyone actually doubt the wall and women's awareness of it? I guess it might just be my upbringing but "the wall" is literally something I knew about when I was 9. There is a saying that was repeated constantly by older male relatives which is basically "make sure your wife is at least 5 years younger because they age faster'.

Women are just offended far more easily. Age is not the most offensive question... try weight. A couple years back after I over bulked I had tons of comments from colleagues and clients (female and male) joking about the weight gain. I can't imagine any of those guys would make similar jokes about a woman's weight gain.

[–]jingle_horeBlue Pill Woman4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I guess it might just be my upbringing but "the wall" is literally something I knew about when I was 9. There is a saying that was repeated constantly by older male relatives which is basically "make sure your wife is at least 5 years younger because they age faster'.

Could this not be the reason that women find it offensive? We are taught from a young age that we lose worth as we age. If that is the truth, then why would we feel comfortable talking about it?

[–]LifterofThingsDelicate Feminine Flower1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Does anyone actually doubt the wall and women's awareness of it

I don't think so, personally. People just like to strawman it as if "the wall" actually means "at exactly age 30 women become disgusting unfuckable hags" and then throw up pictures of Cindy Crawford to dispute that point.

tbf I have seen more than one salty loser sort of use "the wall" that way so I guess I can see what's inspiring the strawman, but my point stands.

[–]Emervila0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Try weight

That's not an offense, that's a crime, you'll get the death penalty.

[–]NeedingAdvice860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It is a very bad question to ask women.....particularly for most sections of the US...that simple question will mark you as a socially awkward derf to be avoided as it is an easy red flag that this dude doesn't get social relationships and likely a lot of other relationships.

Now as to men....experience has confirmed that as you get somewhat older that if ANY woman ask you this question during a social setting or flirting.....she has decided she is open to fucking\dating and is down to her last couple of roadblock questions. And it will nearly almost always be brought up by women for some reason as it seems to be on their checklist......I think it is because women, and I guess guys as well, really can't tell how old guys are.

[–]nevomintoarcePurple Pill Woman0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Is this a gotcha?

[–]PickUpScientistMaroon Pill1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

nah he was close but he blew it with the "the most offensive" wording. flew too close to the sun, melted his wings.

[–]NaturalQueer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I way prefer someone ask cause I hate when people would tell me I looked 18 or 16. Lol

[–]Dustin_BromainTeam Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Meh, I’ve noticed this with people in general, not just women. People just get antsy about their age as they get older and they feel less fulfilled in their life choices.

[–]TheBookOfSeilAn ounce of Snu Snu is worth a pound of cure0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think it just proves that women are self-conscious, which isn’t news. They don’t want to be perceived as β€œold” or β€œa slut” or β€œstupid.” The list could go on for quite awhile.

[–]supertroop0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ouch.

[–]JasonBourne_13 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

I ask women their age because I don’t care about whether that’s acceptable to do

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

πŸ‘Š

[–]lemonfluff0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Women are more than aware that after a certain age or weight they'll get treated like they're invisible by men. This is a well known fact, not some big revulation.

[–]banned_by_cucks[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well, most blue pill women would disagree. Most women in their 20s are completely oblivious to this too.

[–]lemonfluff0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Idk if you are a woman buy I'd really guess not based on this comment alone. Women in their 20s are MORE than aware how men treat them when theyre older. They just dont subscribe to it.

[–]The-Pokester0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m new what is β€œthe wall”

[–]99babytings0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Of course women are aware of the wall. I’ve been aware of it since I was 16 and even though I’m only 19 now, me and most of my girlfriends know that things will get worse in terms of looks for us. Why do you think girls look for personality in long term partners

[–]oct0_t1t0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tbh that’s only way older women (like baby boomer generation. I don’t see other women really caring

[–]theoracleofosiris0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I beg to differ. Asking her about her n count is definitely more offensive than her age.

[–]TruthyMicTruth0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I've asked far more offensive questions, like "Don't you feel lucky you're unrapeable?"

[–]DrFreethink1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Crap, I asked this to my significant other (he is male).

[–]TruthyMicTruth1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's not what I meant.

[–]iLLprincipLeS 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

Have you ever been a victim of a sexual assault? Yeah, would find it hard to believe that you were.

[–]TruthyMicTruth0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What's your point?

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