I don't know where men here came up with the notion that "Chad gets harems". No one had harems because they were hot. Most women are not wasting time catering to a man just because he's hot. No, since the beginning of time the men with ACTUAL HAREMS were royalty or Warlords.

As YveisGrey has mentioned, it's a fantasy for men to get women solely from their looks. Throughout history, harems were filled with gold diggers or sex slaves. In other words, BUYING WOMEN. This is why I never listen to men whine about hypergamous, because men are hypogamous.

Predatory men always benefitted from lower class women needing him for survival so he could sexually exploit her. What predatory men are whining about now is homogamy, that women are now equals. Now that women don't have to rely on men, these predators are throwing a fit, whining that "women are asking too much". That's code for "Gold diggers now have a higher price" and "a woman can actually leave me for treating her like shit".

"But what about guys with alot of baby mamas?"
They never had harems. They jumped from dumb bitch to dumb bitch to be his Pick Me girlfriend and these guys would also be child predators, so alot of their mistresses were minors with low self esteem.