The reason a high N count is impressive in men, but not so much in women:

Goran07 · 2020-10-01T11:13:43+00:00

This is true but serves no purpose because practically nobody considers a female's high n-count to be impressive.

joesmithasdf · 2020-10-02T02:41:43+00:00

The obsession with n count in this sub is how I know most men in here rarely if ever get laid. Every single man I’ve known irl who is actually popular with women might be a little turned off if a woman has a number in the triple digits but otherwise they have a “don’t ask don’t tell” policy.

merlinscalculator · 2020-10-01T11:35:43+00:00

That’s the thing isn’t it? Woman are valuable, men are harmful. Men’s ability to attract women dictates their value since they have none at best, or are a net negative at worse. A woman allowing a man to touch her is decreasing her value because she’s giving it to him. Which is why most women need men to compensate in other means - money, kids, romance - so they can tell people, “see I’m not a fool. I’m getting my value’s worth”. The more you can get outta the man, the more you’re worth. Blah blah hypergamy blah blah.

I don’t know how you all don’t see the very thin line between misogyny and misandry in these topics. How you whine about men not being valued and loved for who they are in our society when you yourself think so poorly of them that you judge women for being foolish enough to allow such a horrible creature to touch her. How you complain about how society puts women on a pedestal, and proudly claim you’d never do that, while at the same time basing the crux of your entire self worth on how many women you can get. Is their pussy pulling you up to their level up on that pedestal? Or is your dick pulling them down to your level in the dirt?

Just look at the language you’re using. A man convinces a woman to sleep with him. What an achievement! The monster tricked the princess to stoop to his level. A woman - the trophy as you said, guess we can finally tell all those men calling themselves the ‘prize’ to take their deluded asses home - asks a man to fuck. She’s used up because... men are parasites? A sexual encounter with a man couldn’t possibly be beneficial to her? It can only be a negative... unless she gets a shiny ring, some financial security, a couple of kids all provided for? Then she’s doing it right? But then she’s a gold digger and we don’t want that either. So we’re back to square one.

Seriously do any of you stop and think about how contradicting so many of your views are? There is no position for a woman to hold that can’t be vilified. No wonder you’re all so angry all the time. Your brain is constantly finding reasons to hate the thing you want most. Sounds exhausting.

KirthWGersen · 2020-10-01T12:31:38+00:00

Am I the only guy on earth who does not care about a woman's n-count? In fact, I prefer them to have a high n-count. They tend to be the most fun and easy-going women.

It must be something to do with personality types. Some men are just more retrospectively jealous or have a higher sense of disgust.

Or maybe it is age: I'm older and I've been around, so I understand completely why women would have wanted to as well.

MasterTeacher123 · 2020-10-01T12:35:48+00:00

It’s not so much that women want a guy with a high N count, it’s a guy that CAN get a high N count if he really wanted to because he’s so desirable.

Like he can fuck the whole community if he wanted to, but he chooses to stay faithful to one girl

Barneysparky · 2020-10-01T11:39:24+00:00

Who is impressed by how many people a guy has slept with? When meeting new people does Chad say "hi I'm Chad. I'm a real estate agent, I'm married now but I've banged tons of woman".

CatchPhraze · 2020-10-01T13:27:58+00:00

It's hard to chew 85 pieces of gum at once but it's not impressive.

Being a slut isn't impressive regardless of how hard it was. It's just gross.

2020-10-02T15:09:11+00:00

She walks up to one and says "Hey, wanna go behind the club? This is very un-impressive. It takes no confidence, since the answer is almost 100% guaranteed to be YES. She can easily take at least 1 dude every 20 minutes. 10 men in one night, no problem at all.

Why do y’all always include this dramatic quasi straw man? It’s irrelevant. There are very few women who would ever do this, much less w multiple men in a night. The vast majority of women aren’t fucking the football team or getting railed by their drug dealer in the club bathroom.

They are getting “used up” doing normally shit, like fucking their boyfriends. SMFH

Sasuke_1738 · 2020-10-01T14:41:19+00:00

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Jaylen-Gads · 2020-10-01T11:35:45+00:00

Men and women are different. The short answer is that women want men who can get other women because that means he is a high value man and in demand. Men disdain high n count women not because they are “jealous” or “insecure”,But because women who sleep around a lot in uncommitted relationships lose their pair bonding, carry a lot of baggage and sets a bad precedent in future behavior as in more likely to cheat and paternity fraud.

SonicBackScratcher · 2020-10-01T12:54:47+00:00

Sky is blue.

Water is wet.

I don't get why this pisses off some men so much.

Do they want to be women? I mean gay men are known for their promiscuity, go gay if you want easy sex.

Anger gets directed at women, which is like directing anger at the sea for the tide rising.

2020-10-01T11:16:50+00:00

Everyone knows this but it's one of those truths that people (well, sluts and feminists, usually both) are uncomfortable talking about and admitting.

kinnnion · 2020-10-01T12:53:17+00:00

This is such a lie. Women don’t want commitment with men who’ve slept around either. Men are already more likely to cheat

kinnnion · 2020-10-01T17:22:42+00:00

If a key opens a lot of locks, it's a master key.

If a lock can be opened by many keys, it's a shitty lock.

Reisiluu · 2020-10-01T13:25:01+00:00

Only men think men's n counts are impressive. Women don't care as long as you are hot, charismatic and fun to be around. Just like men aren't impressed by make up and beauty routines, they only want you to look good.

nemma88 · 2020-10-01T12:58:28+00:00

This logic is why 'first' women achievements in male dominated spaces are much more impressive than the men that did it. The guys were just riding on ez mode due to biology and don't deserve praise.

Or another way of putting it: no one outside the pilloshpere or your friends group cares or is impressed.

Sekina7 · 2020-10-01T11:23:14+00:00

And YET most of you still find it hard to understand why a man offering us a date is unimpressive and even IF he says he is looking for something "serious" most men as you have just mentioned WANT SEX and so the woman has NO GUARANTEE that he will. be sticking around once he get's sex as he can simply say as many of you PPD males do; "well she let him sleep with her ", "it was her job not to open her legs", "no one forced her to have sex" "if she get's pregnant it's solely her responsibility and she can get an abortion" " it's not the man's fault if he get's post nut clarity" " he never promised commitment and does not owe her commitment" "if he is a bad/ negligent father and abandoned you and his child it is your fault for choosing wrong or having casual sex" " If he is a poor husband, poor provider because you naively married for love and not finances and you decide to divorce him but still need him to play his role as a father you choose wrong and deserve no or minimal help to raise your child financially " etc etc etc .

Some of you even have the audacity to ask us to pay half for the date YOU asked us out on (despite us having offers from many men who would be willing to take on their masculine role and pay for the date he asked us on AND most women being more than capable of ignoring the man and taking ourselves out with girlfriends who care about more than using our bodies for sex) which only gives us even more incentive to turn you down and keep our standards high. Keep it real , most men will treat a woman in accordance on how she LOOKS, how much she turns him on AND how she respects herself and what level she is at, most of you would never think of asking someone you consider a 9/10 and who you know is financially established out on a. 50/50 date in a cheap place KNOWING she can do way better than you, take herself out to expensive or cheap places if she wants, and she can get any man she wants and men that would BEG her to let them take her out, all paid for.

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2020-10-01T14:30:35+00:00

A little hyperbolic on the female side, but a very good explanation.

rubbooyuri · 2020-10-01T15:23:13+00:00

A man whore is no more impressive than a woman whore, because sex is a selfish, individual pursuit

joesmithasdf · 2020-10-02T15:05:31+00:00

Not drunk, obviously? What kind of zoomer shit is this? That 7/10 man got the girl same night specifically because she was drunk enough. The rest of it was all about her mood that night and that he approached her before another equal or better looking guy. Lol

What exactly is the amount of work or courtship he put in?? Approached, bought drinks, didn’t behave like psychopath.....

Grand_Duty · 2020-10-03T15:43:16+00:00

https://archive.fo/LXYSc

High n women have mental issues, bpd, npd, self harm issues, depression, and alcoholism. Getting her n count is way more pc, than asking if her daddy touched her or she got molested by her uncle.

Peacheslikeyou · 2020-10-03T20:28:25+00:00

so? promiscuous men are still gross.

spacechicken1990 · 2020-10-01T16:34:13+00:00

Just cos something is easier for someone to get doesn’t mean they want it any less.

I’m not impressed by anyone fucking around tbh it just makes me insecure (yes I said it I wish youse would all admit it too!!) and I fkn hate the idea of a partner having had better sex with other more beautiful women.

Now what if.. now bear with me this is some big brain shit I know you guys don’t understand... the easy bar fly fucked him right away was...*drum roll.. she was also wanting a gd shag!!

So it’s not impressive if you consider that the type of women who do ons are easy as men are because of HL..

Title	The reason a high N count is impressive in men, but not so much in women:
Author	geyejoe7
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Date	October 1, 2020 11:10 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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