The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiated

February 22, 2020

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This is an all too common frustration I see on this sub and a point of such contention that we should probably have a little powwow about it.

If you were to ask a woman: What do women want?You would likely be given the most generic, politically safe answer that everyone, men and women, would agree they want as well. Something like:

“Smart, funny, honest, loyal, fun, open to new experiences, likes to travel, ambitious, works hard but also plays hard, serious but not too serious, financially stable, emotionally stable, stays healthy, etc.

Long term, short term - doesn’t matter; Who the fuck wouldn’t want these things in a partner? I don’t believe women or society lied about this at all. What I do believe is that men and women interpreted the meaning of the question differently.

What men should have been asking is: What - specifically - is it that emotionally/sexually arouses women in the dating process.

The reason why men are such fans of the saying, “a fisherman’s doesn’t ask a fish how to catch it”, is because many women don’t really know what exact behaviors and actions the men who have been successful with them took to get to that point. They don’t innately understand how to be attractive to a woman AS A MAN. Ok, perhaps a few female users in PPD do, but that’s because they have a sick fascination with this subject just as much as the rest of us do. However, 99% of women out there don’t.

But hey, thats just my hot take. What do y’all think? Have I hit the nail on the head, or am I way off base here?

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Title	The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiated
Author	redditthrowaway1478
Upvotes	270
Comments	238
Date	February 22, 2020 6:44 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	/r/PurplePillDebate
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