Personality and character are not the same and men often think of character when they say personality doesn’t matter

I have two guy friends that I know personally with attractive girlfriends, these guys are cool to hang around , funny and interesting but they are highly unreliable drug addicts who I would never do any business with or anything that requires any serous planning because they lack discipline, intelligence and character

One anecdote that’s more universal is Jeremy Meeks, the guy that a lot of men used to justify why looks is all that matters by pointing at his criminal background. I forgot which crime he committed but Its likely that it reflects poorly on his character but not his personality. I saw one of his interviews and honestly, the dude is really chill and seems pleasant to be around but I would probably not trust him ever with certain things cause of his criminal history

Personality actually does matter a lot aside from physical attraction of course yes but character is the actual nice bonus not personality itself