I always see this question and its responses take this course. A guy complains about the glaring disadvantages men have in the dating market and is immediately shut down with “you need to take a shower, work out and make more money” as if EVERY man voicing his displeasure with how insanely particular women are is some basement dwelling neckbeard.

If anything I would say the vast majority of men who take to RP forums are above average and simply frustrated at their minimal success compared to women of equal caliber. These are the men most likely to become frustrated as they have more skin in the game, a lot of the aforementioned black pillers have accepted defeat to some extent, and this advice to “get buff” is even more of a slap in the face to them.

To me this seems like yet another deflection anytime it is suggested women be accountable for anything, god forbid their inflated egos, insane standards and limitless privilege be called into question.