You have a better chance at a long-lasting and fulfilling relationship with the average girl than with the hot girl. "There aren't any more good girls because all the good ones got taken off the market at a young age"-Someone wise

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In our society it's common that the hot girl grew up being showered with gifts by all the boys and gives in to their charms and usually ends up getting shacked up all throughout her early 20s and has like 20+ bodies by the time she's 25-28. She usually comes out from this, what I would call sexually deranged, able to turn off feelings from sex (which is ESSENTIAL when it comes to building a fulfilling and connecting relationship through sex with your significant other). Usually these girls are the he didn't deserve this (when they caused the breakup), manipulate, cheat, sleep around and then expect to find a high quality guy and expect him to just be ok with her sexual past, kind of girls.

However, there is another trend that is there among average looking girls. They grow up looking average and they bloom in their early 20s and grow up looking stunning. These girls however didn't grow up looking amazing so they focused on things like their career and family and sports but when they bloom in their 20s they shine brighter than any star and are now super well rounded women, athletic, smart, career path, good values, doesn't sleep around, and now gorgeous too. These women are generally kind, hard-working, affectionate, motherly (not smotherly), and compromising (all qualities of a high-quality woman).

Obviously there are exceptions: The hot girl with a past but changed herself for the good (this takes time and effort but is possible). She had a bad past and probably was trying to cope with it through sex and indulging in nightlife. But she realized that this was bad for her and accepted that and changed. Advice to young guys: Do not think you can change a girl into accepting this truth if you get into a relationship with her before she changes, because you'll only be hurting yourself in the mix. This kind of change takes time to fix not "oh I slept with him two weeks before you baby, that was in the past, it doesn't matter now, I've changed for you". NO. WRONGGG. "The past isn't the past if it's being perpetuated in the present"-Another wise person. Just like physical change takes time and effort to mold your body into a different shape and experience, it also take time and actual effort to change your beliefs about your lifestyle, not "Oh I changed for you".

The average girl who was traumatized into becoming an independent and career-focusing kind of girl. Drive to become something comes from a place of hate so on the outside she may look like she's in good condition, doesn't sleep around, has a nice job, looks good but if you really get to know her you'll probably be running from your life. Examples: (Never takes blame, hoards money from you, can't have sexual connection with partner because everything is give and take with her, lies when it suits her and constantly tries to manipulate you into her plaything basically a snake hidden in the vines).

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Edit: No women hate, this is just realist talk, I don't wanna call anyone a slut because people go through things and well they do things to cope so I'm just saying if you sleep around there's consequences. More societal value (like society shames such actions) consequences that stem from biological factors.