Read a comment in that friend thread where someone mentioned that you can't see women as "people" or "friends" - hell you can't even get too FRIENDLY if you want to sleep with them. And this is all true.

I think about back when I was in a group chat with friends. Lots of different friends and associates from high school and so on, and we'd bring cool people into the chat and before we knew it the chat ballooned to about 30 of us.

During that time I'd hit on bitches left and right. I gained a "rep" and my friends would "warn" any new chick about me. But that aint stop me from smashin or sexting them. The bitches that either rebuffed me or saw through my bullshit I ended up being cool with or just not really talking to them anymore.

Point is that I aint see these random bitches as potential "friends" you think they joined the chat and I said "Hey, welcome?" Fuk no I said "Waddup lil mama let me holla at you," and 9/10 we'd talk and if we vibe I'm in if we don't then it's on to the next one.

It's striking while the iron is hot.

Being treating a bitch as a friend doesn't work. Fuck her then be her friend after if she's cool enough. Otherwise you fightin an uphill battle