I know I'm generalizing but I'd like to know. I have a single female friend close to 50 and she kind of gives off this vibe like it's completely ruined her. She never seems like she can relax, talks about being an old grandma, financially in debt, doesn't have many friends, criticizes herself/others a lot, and overall just seems pessimistic about life. I'm a guy and she's not even ugly but her vibe is just so off putting.

Maybe there's other stuff going on but I like to think it's directly related to being "post wall" material. While everyone else her age is raising a family she's living a college dorm life with 20 year old roommates! I'm almost afraid to ask her about it in fear that she'll explode about the subject. Anyways if this is what you turn out like I sure as hell don't want to be like that .