What are some of the worst “feel good” lies about dating? Basically, what are some lies people tell about dating in order to make people feel better? I’ll start with some to give you an example.
“ Height isn’t the problem. It’s the insecurity that comes with it!” Yeah, not true. A lot of women will refuse to consider short men even if such men are their height or shorter. No man is openly telegraphing his own insecurity of his height when he talks to a woman. (Initially)
“ Your past doesn’t matter.” It can, especially if you have been someone with a rough dating past.
Drop some examples down below. I’d love to see what you guys think.
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Basically the obvious stuff.
Looks are basically the whole thing when you factor in how much being good looking really does for your life as a whole.
Looks aren't LITERALLY the whole thing, because career, personality, intellect, etc all matter...but guess what, all those things are highly correlated with looks.
#1 takeaway from the scientific literature, personal anecdote, and subjective dating experience?
The biggest thing people can do to improve their lives is improve their looks. Get fit, get perfect teeth, get mild cosmetic surgeries for specific deformities and irregularities (nose, gyno, recessed jawline, flat chested, hair transplants, etc.) if you're really short, wear some elevator shoes or height boosting insoles anywhere from 2-4 inches and....ya! If you're a girl, best bang for buck makeup is blush and eyeliner, those will be the most attractive for men. Blush in particular is extremely attractive.
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What? Like, look like you’ve got a fever? Also, what are those “gyno ” “deformities” and “irregularities?”
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Also difficult to execute the older you get.
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