What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating?

Here’s some:

Men - Say promiscuous women are broken, then seek to pump and dump non-promiscuous women thereby increasing the proportion of supposedly broken women - Claim they would never LTR a promiscuous woman, then marry one if she’s good looking enough - Say they don’t care about women’s jobs, but then exclusively date women in a similar socio-economic bracket - Claim they want a feminine partner, then LTR a bossy, arrogant bitch because they secretly like being told what to do

Women - Demand gender equality but won’t ask men out or pay for dates - Say they choose men for personality, then exclusively date good looking, arrogant morons - Claim money is not a prime motivator, then exclusively date a string of wealthy men - Say they fear men’s responses to rejection, then date men they know have a history of violence because they’re “exciting”