What do you think of the Derrick Jaxn situation?

LittyKitsune · 2021-03-31T16:16:06+00:00

Mackenzie ex-Bezos did the exact opposite and I've seen men on this sub blame her for the divorce. According to them she should have tolerated his infidelity because he provides so much and she shows how ingrateful/disloyal women are. RP confirmed.

Jaxn's wife is staying and...RP still confirmed? "Women would rather share an alpha?" It's like literally anything a woman does can be shoved into an RP lense if you try hard enough.

Sid_Insidious · 2021-03-31T15:24:10+00:00

People are as faithful as their options, sadly (in many cases).

goatismycopilot · 2021-03-31T15:59:55+00:00

I saw footage where he was gripping his wife's hand while he was confessing his cheating and talking about himself in third person. She looked lifeless/trapped/drugged. Her body language was screaming she was in distress and he was so focused on talking about HIMSELF he hardly noticed she was there.

He really set off Ace Metaphor.

I think it is going to turn out that his wife leaves him or ends up falling apart.

Am I surprised? Well he was not very open about being married or his own relationship situation which made me suspicious. So I was not one of those people that worshipped him and is now devastated. I think you always have to be aware that humans are human and to understand they will disappoint.

His problem from a marketing POV is he has lost credibility based on what he pushes.

thetruthishere_ · 2021-03-31T14:12:14+00:00

Hes an idiot and his wife is an insecure pick me. She didnt walk away and dump his sorry butt.

He will just cheat again.

NarniaFox · 2021-03-31T15:05:26+00:00

I briefly read the story. She's religious and that says a lot. Depending on her denomination her decision to say might be dictated by her beliefs. There are Christian people who promote and encourage staying in abusive relationships, let alone after you've been cheated on.

Also what does she do for a living? If I googled correctly, she's a SAHM. It's hard to leave your spouse when you're a stay at home parent with zero personal income.

superlurkage · 2021-03-31T14:31:34+00:00

Um, they have kids together. I thought you guys didn’t want more single moms?

Yeah, that guy’s a professional salesman, taking advantage of unwarranted Christian virtue. She’s just one of many who fell for his lies and thought religion would also protect her. Should salesmen and charming people never get laid? Should we call all charismatic religious people predatory liars?

Demasii · 2021-03-31T17:22:17+00:00

If you're a HVM, you can cheat on your wife with impunity and she'll stay. Because, once again, women would rather share an Alpha...

Sounds like confirmation bias. If she left him then he is a beta. If she stays then he is an alpha.

Complain if she leaves the marriage and complain if she don't. Classic catch 22.

umnothnxbye · 2021-03-31T14:32:21+00:00

The only kind of woman (in my experience) that puts up with cheating is a desperate often mentally ill one with zero self-esteem or self-respect.

ParkTheMonkey · 2021-03-31T17:43:17+00:00

Well you're absolutely right about men having an infinite proclivity for darkness. One only needs to read Blood Meridian, by Cormac McCarthy, to understand that.

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-03-31T14:54:13+00:00

Who?

crookedsummer2019 · 2021-03-31T15:08:52+00:00

For every one woman who stays with a rich man who cheats, there’s probably 20 who leave with half his money.

Her staying with him doesn’t prove anything other than she decided to stay with a cheater.

Johnny Depp married a gold digger woman half his age who nearly or may have actually destroyed his career. Are all rich men that stupid?

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-03-31T17:59:56+00:00

Who?

2021-03-31T20:46:13+00:00

He comes off as a narcissist & pathological liar. I feel bad for the wife, she seems brainwashed and influenced by her religion.

prostate-apostate · 2021-03-31T23:11:18+00:00

Yep trp is right woman would rather share him than settle for average joes. This is more so among pastors who are notorious for sleeping around . That being said idk how her options look . If this guys is conservative and she is a tradcon , then the chances are that her work resume isn't going to pay the bills. Also if this guy is pastor then his entire bussiness depends on him remaining married . So her finances are tied to this guy and them presenting a united nuclear family front even if they are sleeping in separate bedrooms and Don't talk .

_Neon_Shadow_ · 2021-03-31T15:08:31+00:00

Men are capable of some really effed up stuff.

Kinda of like how a woman can cut off her husband's penis and throw it in a garbage disposal simply because he asked for a divorce (this happened btw)

IOportA · 2021-03-31T16:42:45+00:00

If women are going to continue to select the top % of men, they must get used to infidelity.

And if you're a top % man, and you get married, you are straight up stupid

TheChocolateBarsGuy · 2021-03-31T17:27:10+00:00

She probably knows and has her blessing. MEN at that level all have side chicks and their main usually know that.

It's been like that through history !

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GridReXX · 2021-03-31T17:51:14+00:00

I didn’t hear of him until last week.

He doesn’t seem to be in a marriage built on mutual anything including love and respect. They both give off weird vibes as a couple. She’s deeeeeeeply religious and blames herself for everything and Jesus said don’t leave so she isn’t leaving. I almost think he wants her to divorce but unfortunately for him she never will lol.

Men like him don’t honor commitment for its sake. He would have to be with a woman he felt is a prize of all prizes (ridiculously in love) in order for him to not cheat. And even then. If he felt mad at that woman briefly he seems like the type to cheat. He’s the definition of loose morals no loyalty.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2021-03-31T20:18:00+00:00

Except infidelity is common across all social classes, so women stay with lvm as well. Another thing to consider is that life and love are complicated. Romantic love in the sense that we use it. Is a very modern construct, what our predecessors understood. Was that love and relationships were hardwork that had to constantly be tended to.

Everyone on this sub reddit will be cheated on, because most people cheat. There is at least a 50% chance that you will be the one doing the cheating. Do you throwaway a multi year relationship because of an incident? ( if the person is a serial cheater, that's a bit different) each couples issues should be looked at individually, sometimes leaving is the wrong decision. Sometimes leaving is the right decision. This is probably the wrong sub for this idea, but life isn't black and white. When it comes to love and relationships, there isn't a right or wrong way. It's an endless spectrum of Grey. You just have to make sure that you're matching your Grey, with Grey. Instead of matching Grey, with Gray.

Mimoxs · 2021-03-31T20:19:52+00:00

Individual people have different degrees of toleration and that the women who go for certain men are more likely to tolerate cheating.

There are plenty of women who would rather be alone or with an ugly man than be repetitively cheated on by the most "alpha" man in the world. The thing is that those women are unlikely to end up with men like him because they will usually vet for cheaters or end up splitting the first time they find out. There have been plenty of "alpha male" celebs dumped by their wives or gfs for cheating. Why do y'all never take this into account?

The women getting with these men in the first place know they're getting with someone who stands a higher risk of being a cheater and are thus women who are less likely to prioritize fidelity.

Still, I don't get it. Why is every "alpha male" whose wife forgives him and stays evidence that "women tolerate cheating yada yada" but the tons of "alpha males" who get dumped for cheating are just... Invisible to you?

relish5k · 2021-04-01T03:36:43+00:00

I don't know who that is but he sounds lick kind of a prick. His poor wife must be so humiliated that this is all so public.

I don't think I would divorce my husband if he cheated because I think relationships are more encompassing than just fidelity. But I'm also pretty confident he wouldn't cheat so that works out.

rilakkumkum · 2021-04-01T11:58:04+00:00

We see it in the rap industry as well. Cardi B stays with Offset after he cheats multiple times. SaWeetie leaves Quavo after he cheats and he claims “You’re not the woman I thought you were” and the Internet is calling him a king

Forsaken-Version9706 · 2021-04-13T09:58:24+00:00

I, as a woman, am attracted to lots of men while in a relationship. I would cheat based on my urges but self control is what differentiates us from animals.

Feminist_Rising · 2021-04-01T02:06:10+00:00

Cheaters are not HVM.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-04-01T09:00:42+00:00

Lololol

https://mobile.twitter.com/weszmarsh/status/1374174704504877058?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1374174704504877058%7Ctwgr%5E%7Ctwcon%5Es1_&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fd-41406591482063517187.ampproject.net%2F2103240330001%2Fframe.html

Yeah fuck jaxn tho

I've always maintained cheaters should be castrated so they can't do it again

Title	What do you think of the Derrick Jaxn situation?
Author	_Neon_Shadow_
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Date	March 31, 2021 2:06 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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