This is mainly a question for blue, red and black pillers.

If we consider all the facts and anecdotal evidence, we see that all sorts of men

(attractive, ugly, handicapped, poor, rich, old, young, dumb, illiterate, religious, not-religious, intelligent, high society, low society, fat, thin, fit, athletic, couch-potatoes, couch-surfers, abusers, manipulators, kind, nice, smelling nice, smelling dirty, wearing makeup, not wearing makeup, dressing nice, dressing lazy, showering, not showering, emotionally stable, emotionally unstable, good family relationships, bad family relationships,... )

get into relationships. So what exactly is it that gets a man a second, third and eventually married to a woman? What exactly makes this man attractive to a woman, that she'd consider marrying him?

If we take everything into account, every anecdotal evidence and facts then it seems like there simply is no rule. There is no game. It simply just happens. It is not a certain man's fault that he cannot attract a woman. It is neither his personality nor his appearance that decides his success with women. It just wasn't meant to happen for him. Maybe it will happen in future, but nobody can know this and say this with a certainty.

This would mean that the ones who simply get into relationships should honestly consider themselves as lucky and be grateful. At least from this point of view.

I wonder if any of the pills have an answer to this problem: If you account all observations, anecdotes and stats as true, what exactly does a man have to do or be that a woman considers marrying him?