I saw a pro gamer get his testosterone fix by defending his claim to fetishize anything and everything. It was a thoughtless remark and I doubt more was expected from his profession, but seldom does those sentiments come from a vacuum. So here are some words on it.

Harmful sexual ideation is bad. It makes people lose their marbles. They go coo-coo in the head in the worst way. With sexual hormones your mind can go places it would otherwise never do business in. It does not take much to begin to distort that mode, or mood. It is your prerogative as a spiritual being to explore your sexuality. You should keep doing so until your curiosity is satisfied and to accomplish this you need to keep your wits about you. What you are exploring is an evolutionary record and those are categorically hairy beasts. What works sexually often does not work spiritually. When one dominates the other there is no middle ground and communication breaks down. What should be beauty becomes chaos and satisfaction is forgone.

Do not believe that you have nights of sex and drugs under control because chances are you don't. If you have it under control it means you are transcending time and space, uniting and parting in love. Are you doing that, or are you chasing a high? You would be satisfied with one experience if your spirit was fully aligned with your desires. You can not un-wire spirit from sexuality and function among the rest of us. That is automatically isolating. It makes you less real than pornography.

Real hell begins when someone reflects upon the shame of another. Stand up for yourself and see the highest aspects of your fellow beings. There should be plenty of things to satisfy you without the rest of us having to endure the repulsive suggestions a violent retard. Don't enable anyone you see on that dark path, but don't leave them unnoticed either. If you have the strength warn others but don't judge or shame if your intention is to actually help. That stuff sticks to you, don't let it step your stride.

I'm not taking a stance against kink. I'm taking a stance against departing from reality to chase orgasms because you don't need to do that. You are life, you were made from joy. Your come from a place that is undivided and divine. You may have forgotten about innocence, but innocence will never forget about you.