Is there really a difference between the following? 1. Man and woman meet. Man just want sex and woman wants a relationship. The man hides his intentions until he gets laid and then he breaks up with her. 2. Man and woman meet. Both want a relationship. Eventually they have sex and the man changes his mind about her. The reason why doesn't matter. It could be she's bad in bed or he just saw something about her that he didn't like or maybe he just needed the fog of lust lifted from his consciousness to make a clear decision. Man dumps woman. Woman feels used since the breakup happened the first time they had sex.

At the end of the day is there really any difference between the two? In both cases you might feel sorry for the woman but you might see the first woman as being used and the second woman is just suffering through the inevitable injuries of dating. However if you were to talk to both women and ask them what happened and how they feel about things you would probably get the same answer. Namely that both men were pigs and we're just using her for sex.

If this is the case is there any benefit to men just stating their true intentions when dating? Most men probably do want a woman that they desire to fuck for the rest of their life. I've been in several relationships where the sex was really good and it motivated me to learn to love the woman which eventually formed into a long-term relationship. I think it's far better for a woman to always assume that the man wants sex and sooner rather than later. She also needs to understand that the sex could make or break the relationship and it is up to her to walk that fine line between giving it to him soon enough that he won't lose interest and making it good enough that she will keep him. It's almost a moot point to try and read his mind and figure out what his true intentions are.