DISCLAIMER: Posted this on another sub, just wanted to get your opinions too.

Because of the most common way dating works, men are way more likely to start up a conversation and ask a woman out on a date.

This leads to men getting rejected way more often then women do. And, that's fine. Because men decide to put themselves into that risky situation. But we weigh the possibility of a relationship as heavier than the fear of rejection.

But suddenly, when a woman approaches or reaches out to a dude, it's viewed as rude or weird if he doesn't comply and accept her advances.

And then they are weirded out when they get rejected. For some of them, they can't even believe they got rejected.

Guess what ladies. We too feel like that sometimes.

A friend of a friend got rejected by a classmate that I used to go to highschool with.

My friend told me that she doesn't understand why he rejected her. "She's hot, a party girl just like he is a party boy, and she likes him. What else could he want!?"

It's... Almost like some people just... Don't "click" 😱 And... Omg... It sometimes doesn't go both ways 😱

Like.. why is it so strange to women that get rejected.

The dude I mentioned earlier is a virgin, and says he doesn't want a relationship, but just hookups. He said she came on too strong, and told him she "likes him a lot". This is perfectly acceptable. Even if he is a virgin, why would he be required to accept advances from a woman that likes you, and kind of fits the description of what you like? Noone is forcing you to do anything. And yet it's viewed negatively and pointed out that he's in the wrong here. When he's realy not.