I'm talking about pure physical attraction, not things like sense of humor, the right personality, having a musical talent or having a high income which can contribute to attractiveness.

Two recent comments made me think of this:

Anytime a woman points out her own preferences in a male partner, you may as well run for the hills. This is despite the fact that many men expect their women to have long legs, big arse, big tits and a face like butter wouldn't melt, all the while sitting there looking like Peter Griffin themselves.

and

you almost never see society bombard men to give rectangular-shaped women a chance, “flat” women a chance, older women a chance

What I find interesting about this is how oblivious these posters seem to be about the real world. How is possible they can't see that men have been and always will be attracted to women of all shapes and sizes - BBW, skinny, milf, tall, short, flat chested, etc, etc. etc.

Men are much more willing to look past a genetic imperfection and... it's not even close. Men attracted to a much wider range of physical descriptions and... it's not even close. Online dating proves this every day. Porn proves this every day. Take any woman with an imperfection (wrong height, wrong weight, acne, etc) and then compare her dating life to that of her hypothetical exact male counterpart, the results are clear and indisputable as to who gets more opportunities.

So back to my original question, why are women so oblivious to this? Do women honestly think they live in a world where men are more unreasonable and less accepting?