Subreddits such as these are 90% dudes who refuse to see that the dating market is looks obssessed and don't acknowledge they simply lack visual appeal. They will vigorously hamster away the reality (i.e. they lack sex appeal) and blame "their" women for dating other races or blame other races for being racist and not wanting to date them, to the point of hating XMAF couples instead of visiting a gym or hairstylist.

Truth is, nobody owes anybody sex or love but why are men overwhelmingly the ones who feel entitled to "their" share of women without any effort?

Women of all races who are dissatisfied with their appearance or lack of dating attention will make a long to-do list e.g. 1) Skincare 2) Makeup 3) Clothing 4) Fragrance 5) Dental Care (even Plastic Surgery) 6) Diet

In today's world some men are into grooming and looksmaxxing to improve their chances of landing a date, but why are most men extremely resistant to do even 15% of what women do to try to be groomed, visually appealing and worthy of attention?

Culturally Asian men are definitely worse at this due to the patriarchal societies and traditions like arranged marriage and bride kidnapping, how can such men understand better how to function in egalitarian dating markets like the West where women have more choices available?