https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/3tmzpr/i_think_we_need_to_reach_out_to_these_women/

I just don't get it. Why is it that if a guy happens to be abusive, it automatically makes him a Red Piller?

What exactly do people find abusive or manipulative about TRP? I'd like to know once and for all.

Lets go over some things that some may twist as abuivive or manipulative behavior.

Shit Tests

Okay. Lets give an example of a shit test and how a Red Pill man would respond.

WOMAN: You're only 5'9''? Wow, you're short!

The proper response to such a statement would be to either agree and amplify, or use amused mastery.

Lets see what an agree and amplify response might look like to this woman's statement:

AGREE & AMPLIFY: Thats right hun, I'm a fucking dwarf! Are you Snow White?

Ok, a little corny, but the point is he didn't give in to her ridiculous statement about something as arbitrary as height. Now, lets see how amused mastery would go down:

AMUSED MASTERY: Height doesn't matter if you're laying down...

Ok. So, with both of these reactions, the man didn't give up, he had the confidence not to take her comment seriously. Heres how a nice guy may have handled it:

NICE GUY: Really? Damn, I'm sorry about my height.

As you can see, the non-red pill guy gave in. He took it personally, and probably lost confidence from her statement. She now see's him as a guy who doesn't stand up for himself.

What do we call the process of how the Red Pill guy responded?

FLIRTING!

So, with this example of what passing shit tests REALLY means (FLIRTING), why is The Red Pill associated with abuse/manipulation?