Why do people here act like Europe is some fairy land where redpill has been abolished and average or below average men can get sex easily?

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-10-16T00:12:03+00:00

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BrummieAMN19 · 2022-10-15T23:33:36+00:00

I find that this sub is too Americanised more specifically white upper middle class types who live in the picket fence areas or whitewashed ethnic men who have an extreme chip on their shoulder trying to extrapolate their (strange) viewpoints to the rest of the world. This is especially true when they constantly say women demand you to make loads of money for her to consider you attractive when that’s a load of fucking bollocks no amount of money will ever buy a woman’s genuine desire.

hungrychick404 · 2022-10-15T23:18:34+00:00

I don’t know very many people from Europe, but I see tiktoks that show European women wanting men to pay for dates and treat them like queens. They seem to sometimes be unimpressed by American men, but I don’t know how accurate this is

purplish_possum · 2022-10-15T23:22:39+00:00

Not quite sure what you're talking about. There have been quite a few posts about how the more egalitarian a country is the higher women's standards are. There have been several people who have pointed out that Norway and Sweden have lots of sexless young guys.

I'm not against egalitarian societies. Not at all. But guys need to understand that in egalitarian societies they're going to have to hustle a lot more.

Lovers691 · 2022-10-15T23:25:18+00:00

I have rarely if every seen men on here idolize Western Europe for male dating, Eastern Europe yeah but it is most South East Asia and Latin America that I see.

gymbro718NYC · 2022-10-16T00:03:02+00:00

I'm originally from Eastern Europe and also lived in a Western European country for 2.5 years known for its egalitarianism. I can tell you that women everywhere are virtually starved for real men who aren't afraid of their own shadows.

In a lot of ways, women kind of fucked themselves (but not the good kind of fucked), by buying into the whole woke feminism metoo movement and totally promoting the notion that men should be all but neutered. The purification of the evil, toxic dirty male has been a thing for a while though, but the last decade just took it to the fucking stratosphere.

So now you just have a bunch of guys who can't function in normal social situations, who are afraid of their own shadows, who don't dare even make eye contact with a woman or else they be labeled a predator.

The reality is Mother Nature hates this because Mother Nature loves a lot of cocks and lot of vaginas getting together. And Mother Nature favors the survival of the strongest. So the only guys getting action are the assholes who are confident enough to go for what they want without concern for what society thinks of them. These guys know they are in such demand that they can treat women like disposable tampons and they certainly do. But they do give them the thing they need.

The remaining men are a bunch of whiney incels and nice guys afraid of their own shadow.

Soon-to-be-Catlady · 2022-10-16T00:11:07+00:00

Also cold approaching is not a thing in Germany, neither picking up women from clubs

Must have imagined how I made out with guys in clubs and went home with a few after ...

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2022-10-16T01:30:18+00:00

Germany is just a weird place in general, people are really anti social as a whole and are locked in to their individual friend groups but if you can break into those social circles you can meet some interesting people

As far as dating goes you are partially correct, ethnic men are severely limited here when it comes to white German women ( the only exception is mixed race men) but that isn't the case for all women. Women from other countries who live in Germany are very open to dating ethnic men ( especially black men). My girlfriend is Croatian and she by far the prettiest woman I've ever dated overseas or in America. As far as white men go it's hit or miss, if you don't have the jawline, the height, and the physique you're treated no different than am ethnic man by white German women.

Aromatic_Shop9033 · 2022-10-15T23:31:25+00:00

Hmmm...don't know about Germany, but my fiance is from Eastern Europe, and she's traditional af. Guess it helps she isn't a TikThot 304 like your whale flatmate...

I'm sure my story is the exception, but it's the only experience I have with women outside the US (home of the entitlement diva).

Super-Peoplez-S0Lt · 2022-10-15T23:25:18+00:00

I don't know who are these people who believe that Europe is some dating paradise for average and below average men (and people in general for that matter) but they are going to set themselves up for disappointment when they move here. As an average man who studied abroad in Spain, France, and Portugal not too long ago, I'll say that I was as undesirable as I was in the United States. I also visit Canada a lot, and I was also undesirable. I recently visited Mexico this year and guess what? Still undesirable.

I honestly think this may be due to the stereotype a lot of US leftist have about Western Europe being this socially and economically progressive paradise. If they go to the Netherlands during November and December, that'll progressive propaganda will be dead real soon. Also, these people are almost as naive as those redpillers and social conservatives who believe Eastern Europe is some alt-right and redpill paradise. There's a reason why a lot of educated people in much of Eastern Europe leave given how much of a paradise this place is.

Honestly, I've learned that if you are undesirable in one place, 9/10, you'll be just as undesirable in the next time. If not, you'll be more undesirable due to culture shock.

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SupremacyPlays · 2022-10-15T23:50:38+00:00

This would be true if Europe was replace with third world countries