Now, strangely, I've heard of MANY situations where men were withholding sex or only having sex with their wives once a week (and confirmed not having affairs) so perhaps this is more of a gender-neutral issue than we think, but I can't help but figure that the vast majority of people withholding sex for months (or years!!!) are women.
I'm a woman (I know this is a faux pas) and not only do I love sex, but I would never dream of denying it to my partner because to me that's a form of infidelity and neglect. There's a chance that if I was really angry with him I may not have sex for one night, but honestly that's never happened. Even if I'm not in the mood, sex doesn't even take that long and it's important to the other person.
I know a lot of BP people would consider me some kind of sex slave but sex is a huge part of any relationship and I think it's really important that you make yourself available to your partner. Of course if you say no, it shouldn't be forced on you, but if you're married you shouldn't be saying no in the first place unless you're sick or super tired.
I also don't understand how women can deprive their husbands of sex, and not worry that he'll just find someone else. If I said no to sex, that would be the first thing on my mind!
But moreover, isn't sex fun? Why would anyone forgo it? i Mean obviously some sex is better than other sex...quickies aren't as good as the long romantic ones, but it's not like it's some atrocious boring chore. Even the less exciting sessions are still fun once you get into it.
So what's the deal? Why do you think so many women do this? Is it a power play to get their way in other areas? Is it a way to feel superior over the man? Do you think tons of women suffer from nonexistent sex drive?
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