I noticed a double standard when it comes to hypegamy. It's accepting that women only date up, yet shame men for doing the same. I would have loved to have the sex life of "chads" with hot, young women during my formative years. But since that was not the case, i don't really feel like acting as if i had a "normal" formative youth, and just date women acting as if nothing happened.

I don't want the leftovers of other men for serious relationships. Especially since relationships are not about love when you are 25+ years old. It's more of a business relationship, very transactional based.

So, things being what it is. My dating strategy is the same as women. Sure, i would have a relationshop with chads leftovers, but only if they have a higher socio-economic status(a.k.a rich). If not, then i prefer being alone.

One of the benefits of being invisible to women, is that you get used to living on your own and doing things yourself. So i don't mind being alone. I would prefer being alone, rather then being in a toxic relationship being used. So i am only interested in a relationship if there is something to gain from it.

Yet then i receive negative reactions from both men and women. Saying things like "what do you bring to the table?" or "are you rich yourself?" yet people accept it when women are hypergamous and don't go for personal attacks. Because women are valued more in society, and think that only women have the right to be selective or have high standards.