So many times I’ve seen protested here that the dating game is rigged against men, then all the research and stats which honestly are BS, NO REAL WORLD EXPERIENCE! We're all connected yet live our own lives so you make of it what you want. Whatever guru told you confirmed your bias based on hurt, that becomes your forever confirmation bias.

Many of us have been hurt - I've shared my story here and actually felt attacked for it - I was the breadwinner, my ex husband married up, he took half my money in US divorce court, and I've come to accept and forgive to the point we're able to talk as friends. This is besides the point but part of it - get over it, figure it out, and emotionally grow up you guys. But hey, if you just wanna bang and have no attachments, no judgement, but please don't sit here feeling sorry for yourself that OLD is not working for you.