Where the fuck did this notion come from? Out of all the matches I have asked what they want out of OLD, the vast majority have responded that they use it for validation or something casual. Out of the span of a 3 years, I can count how many wanted a serious relationship on my hand. It's pretty sad that I have to ask if they have a boyfriend on a God damn dating app so I dont feel shitty for trying to pursue.

This idea that "yikes incel, women actually have it just as bad when it comes to dating! They just want a happy relationship but only get thirsty men wanting to pump and dump ". Cut the bullshit Karen, women want dick just as much as men want pussy.

Now I will say that my situation lies with younger people and on Tinder/Hinge, so mileage may vary. However, I imagine this doesn't vary significantly between apps.