When women ask to be treated as "equals", they are not asking to be treated as equal most of men are treated, which is as serfs to pay taxes at best.

Women are asking to be treated as the top 20% or 10% of men they like, but without putting any effort (at least top men have to keep a frame, game, etc. which takes time and effort). Therefore, when women ask to be treated as "human beings" the implicit claim is that they don't consider most men human beings in the first place. It is basically the definition of projection.