Women Do Not Have a "Sex Drive"

LazulineP · 2020-05-11T16:50:49+00:00

I actually agree with this. Sex for me is a bonding act, reserved for someone very special to me. If I can’t find that, I’m fine not having sex. I’ve never wanted to “fuck”

Mimoxs · 2020-05-11T17:34:36+00:00

Ok, but sex drive is about... Sex drive. The desire to orgasm, the desire to experience sexual activity, is what sex drive is. Therefore masturbation is absolutely relevant. If a woman masturbates once a month, she has a lower drive than someone going 5+ times a day.

diffdedbed · 2020-05-11T16:56:21+00:00

Its wrong but its not a bad approach.

Women's sex drives are much more limited than mens and by keeping them sexually stimulated you keep the sex drive going to. Its called responsive desire and while I no longer have a link, its about how 70% of women are sexual (the other 30% are more like men where they just get horny and want sex spontaneously).

Likewise a minority of men are this way as well. That guy who never seems to put effort into getting laid? Quite possibly doesn't get spontaneously horny like most men.

Anyways while "attention" isn't the thing, its them getting attention sexually which makes them horny.

Its also not 100% one way or another, and early in a relationship everything is sexy so the woman will be horny and initiate more often. This is why bedrooms die. The guy doesn't get that with experience shes no longer getting that constant stimulation she used to due to habituation. He gets put off shes not into him anymore, bitterness happens, and divorce. She finds a new guy and new relationship, shes horny again but it won't last as long as the first few. Perhaps this is where the pair bonding issue TRP likes to harp on is really taking place.

cloudydays84 · 2020-05-11T17:15:37+00:00

Sources? Evidence? Case? Like another commenter said you spent the first half of your post tackling possible dissenting comments. Then you have this:

Sex is good, and women enjoy it. WHY they choose to pursue it is sexy male attention. Men will do a lot for heterosexual women if they will fuck him. Women's requirements for sex are significantly more complex (over time) but for acute attraction, it's the attention.

But nothing to back it up with, this is basically just a claim.

Also if I'm being honest you put "Sex Drive" in quotes so I feel like you're already manipulating the definition to kinda fit the narrative of what you're saying.

Not an attack, just my 2 cents.

2020-05-11T16:46:08+00:00

As a woman who enjoys sex I can see this being true 🤷‍♀️ what I like about sex is having an intimate connection w someone.

Link doesn’t work tho.

2020-05-11T16:46:44+00:00

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wekacuck · 2020-05-11T17:10:33+00:00

What are your thoughts on the classic "I love you but I'm not in love with you"?

boomcheese44 · 2020-05-11T17:39:38+00:00

No, women do have a sex drive. Its just that there are not enough hot guys around. The pay off for sex is an orgasm.

SaBahRub · 2020-05-11T19:06:37+00:00

We do. It’s just 1/1000th that of men’s

parranna · 2020-05-11T23:49:53+00:00

What about a high sex drive in a committed relationship?

Punk_Pegasus · 2020-05-11T23:58:45+00:00

They most certainly do. I think about sex almost all the time. And how the hell is masturbation not sex? If it causes sexual pleasure and orgasm, its sex.

bonusfruit · 2020-05-12T00:08:33+00:00

r/stupidslutsclub

Silverfox17421 · 2020-05-12T07:46:26+00:00

Oh fuck yeah they do! Most women are ravenous, insatiable mymohos and sex addicts who will have sex 3-4 or more times a day or 4, 5, 6 hours a day. Most women and even girls nowadays masturbate to orgasm regularly. A lot of young women and girls do it every day or nearly every day.

It's not unusual for an 18-20 year old woman to be wet and horny from awakening to bedtime. Once they figure out how to have that orgasm, they're addicts and they want it all the time. I dated a 50 yr old woman who did it 3-4 times a day. I dated a 59 year old woman who told me she used to fuck her ex husband 10X/day!

Let's say they are nymphos for Chad or for the man she loves. Love turns on the female sex drive and can make them dripping horny seemingly all the time. I knew a 48 year old woman exactly like this.

The female sex drive is not lower than the male's. But the male drive had an urgency about it like an itch you can't scratch. Plus it is actually physically painful for a young man not to get off regularly.

All these women saying that women have a low sex drive - I just don't get it. Maybe they've never been in love, don't masturbate, or never fucked Chad.

But this wild, animalistic sex drive combines with an intense prudishness and sex hatred. They're often both going at the same time. Both this intense prudishness and the crazed nymphomania are essential parts of the Female Character along with, obviously, ambivalence. A woman is a complicated thing!

trve_21e · 2020-05-11T17:12:38+00:00

I have a high libido, I think about and want sex 3-5x/day

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Zippo-Cat · 2020-05-11T19:51:39+00:00

This is just a rant by some rando on the Internet lmao

Title	Women Do Not Have a "Sex Drive"
Author	itiswr1tten
Upvotes	3
Comments	81
Date	May 11, 2020 4:42 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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