So how come it's okay for women to use men for "foodie dates", yet when a man does it, he gets arrested?

https://www.businessinsider.nl/california-dine-and-dash-dater-accusations-2018-9?international=true&r=US

And a woman who wanted to use a man for his money, get's beaten to the punch by the man. And suddenly it's the men who is wanted. Yet a woman stealing a man's money is perfectly okay. Cardi B even admitted to drugging men and robbing them, and she is still walking around.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lbhsxGSHUc8

This society is sick. So how come consequences only count for men?