It's no secret that a lot of men are struggling these days and checking out of society at record rates. Up until fairly recently there has been no real masculine figures for men to look up to and learn from. Nobody offering realistic, tangible advice on how to improve yourself. Men are fed the fairy tail that if you're a genuinely good person, be yourself, get a good job, and are kind to women that you will have a good chance at attracting a nice girl. Men believe this, put themselves out there, and then find themselves confused and disillusioned. When men talk about their struggles they are told to shut up and misled into believing that their personality is the reason.

Enter redpill and the manosphere. Finally, we have men saying the things everyone seems to think but are too be afraid to say, teaching men what a strong father figure ideally should be teaching them about male and female nature, and encouraging them to be better. Content creators in the manosphere are preventing men from committing suicide, encouraging them to get off their ass and hit the gym, encouraging them to work hard and strive to be successful financially, and most importantly teaching them to recognize their value.

Women do not care about men's issues with very few exceptions, nor should you expect them to if you're a man. They want privileges at the expense of men (US women's soccer team stealing the men's prize money, for example) Here are some common issues men face and how the manosphere is making a difference:

  1. Mental health - In 2020, men died by suicide 3.88x more than women. This is staggering. A lot of men struggle with mental health in large part because of their lack of success in their personal endeavors and lack of success with women. Humans are social creatures, and a lot of men are struggling with loneliness these days. The figures in the manosphere give men a commonality, a community of men who can relate to their struggles who will hold them accountable and encourage them to be better. Redpill creators offer tangible advice on how to improve yourself and be successful in a myriad of different ways. Success and competence breeds confidence, and confidence will do wonders for your mental health and dating life. People always superchat freshandfit telling them that they saved their life. Here is an example of a website put together by a RP man who struggled heavily with depression and had no friends, and managed to turn his life around. On his website, he has advice on a myriad of subjects like putting together a good tinder profile, taking good pictures, sex, mental health, making friends ect... who out there is doing things like that for men outside of the manosphere? Freshandfit cover finance, real estate, dating, and fitness. They bring in expert's in their field to provide insight. In almost every thread made by a man here, there are women calling him a misogynistic incel because they disagree with him. It's normalized for women to use terms that shame men for their lack of sexual experience. For the men that actually aren't having sex, imagine what that will do to their mental health.

  2. Holding Men and Women Accountable - In a society where too many men are addicted to porn and video games, and the average man is overweight, RP creators wont pull any punches when it comes to holding men accountable. If you're not lifting, trying to make $$ and pushing yourself out of your comfort zone but still complaining about not getting girls, you're going to catch some heat for it. If you're an overweight dude making 30k a year and you want a beautiful woman, you're damn sure going to be called out for being delusion. If you're a simp wasting your money on onlyfans, you're going to catch heat for it. If you lead with your wallet and let yourself get swindled you're going to be criticized for it. If you have a victim mentality and attribute all of your problems to other factors instead of making an effort to improve yourself, you're going to be called out for it. Women complain about the quality of men available to them, but the manosphere encourages and helps men to become high value men. Nobody else is doing that. Society says women are the prize. You have to prove her worth to her. RP influencers teach men to recognize their value and understand the fact that high value men are a far more limited commodity than attractive women. A woman has to prove herself to you just as much as you have to prove yourself to her. Society says obese is beautiful. RP says the truth: obese is neither healthy nor beautiful, and indicative that an individual lacks self discipline. Society says: Yasss queen you can have whatever standards you want. In truth, if you can't attract someone that meets your standards and refuse to improve yourself, you are delusional.

  3. Teaching Men the differences between men and women - In a society that continues to deny the differences between men and women in the interest of political correctness, RP creators are providing men with crucial information about the differences between the two genders, and critical information in understanding female behavioral trends. Things like hypergamy, pre-selection, AF BB, the importance of adopting an abundance mindset instead of putting a particular woman on a pedestal, something a lot of men struggle with. They are encouraging men to embrace their masculinity. If you go on a subreddit like r/dating you'll see that virtually any time a man express his struggles with dating he's gaslit into believing that its personality related. RP influencers reiterate (and demonstrate) what women actually desire: height, status, money, physical attractiveness, social savvy/charm.

The emergence of the manosphere is probably the single best thing to happen for young men today. It's helping men become the type of men that women want to date. As an aside, despite this silly narrative that RP influencers are just taking advantage of young men to scam money out of them: virtually all RP content is available for free. On websites, subreddits, YT channels ect...