Women who have cheated: Did it feel good?

FancyCocktailOlive · 2022-10-03T17:45:52+00:00

It felt AMAZING to feel desired again. So yeah, it was AMAZING. Got me out of that terrible relationship I was in.

risdeveau · 2022-10-03T17:32:05+00:00

Totally. I felt so manly, I mean womanly. Rrrawr, I crushed sex and dating! I felt like Leo, I mean, uh….Taylor Swift?

Khanluka · 2022-10-03T10:32:56+00:00

Never cheated but ofcourse cheating feels good. Your kinda a dumb dumb if you start doing that even to it feels bad.

INFPSoloDuh · 2022-10-03T16:49:40+00:00

I've cheated before, and as much of the red pill ideology that I may subscribe to myself, without being a red piller. I hated myself for it and it wasn't worth it. If you make a contract with someone to be monogamous, you're wrong if you break it. Man or woman. Don't hurt people.

Lol I've made a post before about getting the truth from women about dating experiences and was down arrowed and fought against tooth and nail. Looking at the comment section- even though this post was addressed to women, I see mostly men opening up. Curious. Maybe all men are blah blah blah

Lysa_Bell · 2022-10-03T09:53:41+00:00

I cheated once. On my gf back then. It's was an exit-ONS that showed me how much the relationship was already over. I broke up with her the next day. I still feel like a POS about it and I will never ever do it again. I intend to listen to myself and end things before they escalate.

My current bf got cheated on 3 times. It gave him severe trust issues. I am very grateful that he gave me a chance to proof myself that I won't betray him. Over 4 years now. He still sometimes worries I will leave him for someone "better". I still worry he will leave me for someone "better". Which is why we both try to make the relationship as good as possible for each other.

No. Cheating does not feel like a rockstar. You become dirt. You lose self respect. You gain an additional red flag that is basically universal. Can not recommend.

TermAggravating8043 · 2022-10-03T08:45:17+00:00

I don’t understand why you’d think cheating on your partner is going to make you feel good,

your watching too much porn

pronouns-king-lord · 2022-10-03T16:13:02+00:00

Women normally never admit cheating even if they are caught red handed.

Also why you won't have any women in this sub admit it

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-10-03T11:34:21+00:00

I did when I was 18.

Did it make me feel good? No I felt like an absolute scum bag, which I was.

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-10-03T16:39:15+00:00

I cheated once when I was drunk. Honestly I didn’t feel bad about it, he didn’t know and i knew he would never find out. I left him a week later. I would never had done that to someone I love or wanted to make things work with no matter how drunk I was. The whole situation led me to realize how unhappy I was in my relationship.

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neetykeeno · 2022-10-03T18:34:27+00:00

Hmmmm Never cheated with a person but there's a sort of almost cheating that is about sticking to the idea that will break the relationship. Like change one of your regularly used passwords to a variation on the thing they said that you can't forgive so you're reminding yourself over and over. I suspect that people who cheat regularly do it for a similar reason, it creates an emotional place from which you don't care about the other person so their power over you is limited.

Yeah I think it is about minimising how much you care.

_demidevil_ · 2022-10-03T19:28:56+00:00

Didn’t think about him. He had totally lost my respect by being entitled and abusive and I was mostly trying to distract from the hell of being stuck with him.

AmbitiousCamp5942 · 2022-10-04T02:31:10+00:00

I cheated in my early 20's because I was depressed. I had two full blown boyfriends. I never felt like hot shit but I did feel momentary relief from my otherwise lonely existence. So I guess yeah it felt good? I was drowning so I sunk 2 men for a breath of air. The breath obviously felt good but there was no ego gratification. Honestly my self esteem was so low I never actually believed they could love me so I didn't understand the pain I caused until later. Im not proud of it and I've grown as a person.

Title	Women who have cheated: Did it feel good?
Author	Xombie0991
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Date	October 3, 2022 12:41 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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