On PPD and all over the internet you see women talking about men's supposed expectations of women to be their domestic slaves in relationships and marriage. I think it's nothing more than gaslighting in order for women to justify their financial abuse of men and entitlement.

The entitlement of mediocre women and their unilateral expectations can be found on every corner of the internet. But when it comes to men and unbalanced expectations, it's always off the hearsay.

For example FDS ideology that justifies not paying for or doing nothing for a man you're dating is that men are looking for nothing but a free maid in marriage, so the goal is to get benefits for it. But when you look at their top posts, it's nothing but tweets of women saying stuff for "yeeeaah gurl"ing, memes and circle jerks. Go to r/whereareallthegoodmen and their top posts are nothing but fat single mothers, post wall women and and broken women expressing their entitlement for men to fix their lives and provide them unilateral resources.

A few week ago a woman on here was arguing that hypergamy and expecting men to pay for everything while dating was justified because when they get on a relationship the man is going to expect her to cook and clean. I asked her out of all the men she dated, how many of them expected this of her. She said NONE OF THEM. So why the hell is she arguing that? Yet you can walk up to any man on the planet and get stories of women and their silly expectations.

I'm not saying there aren't men out there who don't hold these expectations. Im fully aware that previous generations were more reliant on these tropes and marriage standards. Men and women were playing their part.

But in 2021 people are getting married older and are holding out until later in life to even get in relationships. Men aren't going from living by themselves their entire adult life, cooking and cleaning themselves for decades only to turn into helpless toddlers when they get married.

Every male friend I have are all great cooks who are married to women who don't even know how to turn on a stove. Even female friends either range from cook for sustenance or can't boil water. Yet it's men out here looking for free chefs and maids? Most men will tell you the women they've dated were pigs.

Truth be told everything that comes out of a woman's mouth is either an exaggeration, a falsehood or a anecdote to justify an inequality because women's identity is centered around being the overworked victim in order to justify entitlement to men's resources. Women can't even own up to studies that show women in their 20s make more than their male counterparts, because they need to perpetrate the idea that men need to pay due to the wage gap.

And even women in this post are going to conjure up stories about 30yo men sitting at a table with forks and a bib waiting for dinner after she got off from working 16 hours. Where is the proof? Where is the evidence?