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Young guys that can't get laid should just get with older women.

September 4, 2022
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I constantly see guys on here that are struggling with dating so as someone that had the same issue I figure I'll share how I managed to solve that problem. The sad truth is that if you're a young guy today that doesn't have much money and is more towards the beta side, girls today just don't want you. Most guys just can't compete with the alphas or the old guys with money and status.

While you might get lucky here and there you are mostly just wasting your time. What you should realize is that there are tons of older women that are single, lonely and desperate. Many of those women were just like the younger girls today. They thought they were too good for everyone and they wanted to have as much "fun" as possible and before they knew it time just simply ran out for them.

Those women really want the older HVM but can no longer get them. Many of them simply can't handle not having the SMV advantage anymore. Many older women still have needs. Since they can't get the HVM they want they simply settle for a younger guy with stamina that is just happy to get laid. Not to mention that younger guys are so desperate that to them these older women have a high SMV because they are female and attainable.

When I was younger and was broke, under 6 feet, and more towards the beta side, I had trouble myself. The younger girls that I really wanted were more of a waste of time then anything. You try and try just to see them be picked up by an older guy with a nice car.

So I just started dealing with older women. They weren't exactly what I wanted but I was getting laid at least. I also was able to get hotter women then I could have gotten with younger girls. I had an older rich woman that used to take me out and buy me things. I had one woman with big tits. I even had a very pretty older woman with a huge ass and thick thighs. She could have easily been an IG model if she was younger. There was no way I could have gotten a younger girl with all that.

So I ask you younger guys why are you wasting your time with younger girls that don't want you when you could be "dating" an older woman? Besides its just for now. After you manage to build up enough status you can then circle back and only date younger girls. One advantage you have as a man is that you have more time. So you can do that.

Just some bad things I think I should warn you about. These older women really want an older HVM and they're only settling for you. In fact I think that you are just a pawn which she's hopelessly trying to use to make the HVM jealous. However since it's just about sex you shouldn't care too much.

They also try to act as if they're better than you because they're older. They constantly say things like "you're still a kid" and whatnot. Also they really just want to use you to feel like they stills got it. Younger guys are good for that because they are desperate and are just happy to be getting laid.

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Title Young guys that can't get laid should just get with older women.
Author MAGA-Latino
Upvotes 5
Comments 102
Date September 4, 2022 10:49 AM UTC (5 months ago)
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[–]wtknightGen X Slacker[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link

Removed. We already have a megathread at the moment about age gap relationships.

[–]purplish_possum 29 points30 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Older women don't want to fuck unattractive guys any more than young women.

Older women have been hooking up with attractive young guys since forever. Back in the 1980s when I was a teenager several older women bought me drinks and took me home.

Older women choose attractive young guys to have sex with. Not guys who struggle.

[–]Head-Language-2977 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

(42M) As you phrase it, yes unattractive (below average looking) men will be unattractive to all women in every age group. However, as we read on this sub a lot, a lot of average young men struggle too, not just ugly ones, since the competition for younger women is very fierce. I think pursuing older women (+10 years) is good advice for average-looking young men who happen to be bunched together at the bulk of the looks bell curve.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I was struggling with girls my own age but was killing it with older women. I'm speaking about things that I've actually done.

[–]loganmacoy 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

In my experience (42M) younger women reject me because I am under 5 feet. Older women reject me because I am under $60k

[–]thetruthishere_Chads Pay Me 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

We like them for their harder dicks. Many 40+ men already have ED issues, guts, sagging man boobs, etc.

[–]purplish_possum 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

That's 70 -- not 40.

[–]thetruthishere_Chads Pay Me 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

It starts then, not like I dont know as an escort...

Also my friend cannot believe how much ED meds her pharmacy doles out to men under 35. they can barley keep it stocked.

[–]purplish_possum 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm almost 60 and everything works just fine without pharmaceutical assistance. If we're both home all week -- me and my GF do it about 20 times per week.

[–]TermAggravating8043 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If it’s agreed it’s only a sex thing this might not be a bad idea. For a lot of older women, their not desperate, they don’t want a relationship as its to much work for them with very little reward. Having a toyboy with no baggage and no commitment issues is not a bad idea, it’s only when he tries to move in and have you look after him that you might have problems

[–]ThisTimeForRealYo 17 points18 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

If you’re going for bimbos who want men with “money and status” then that’s on you. There’s plenty of women who don’t want to date an ATM.

Yes, you should have some income to be able to take care of yourself, but wanting a person with “status”, whatever that means to you is fucking cringe.

Seriously, why would you want a woman who will only date you if you are known by alot of other people?

[–]southern_dilettanteNo Pill 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

True, looks top money all day long

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Ah another NAWALT. Then maybe you should introduce some of these non-toxic women you know to some of the guys here.

[–]ThisTimeForRealYo 18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m not a fucking pimp and I’m not gonna whore out women to some fucking weirdos on the internet just to get them laid when they’re basement dwelling dorito odor spreading fat fucks.

Even that entire mentality is wrong. You aren’t owed anything.

[–]AcanthocephalaNew947 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Why would someone introduce non toxic women to toxic men?!?

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

And what makes us toxic? You are on Reddit too. So we could also assume that you're toxic too?

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Any man who thinks AWALT is not a good ‘un

[–]AcanthocephalaNew947 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Being on Reddit isn’t what makes them toxic. Stop playing obtuse.

[–]howdoiw0rkthisthing 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

non-toxic women

Is that kinda like non-toxic deodorant?

[–]lemoncurdmacaron 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

But literally? Look into short vs long life strategy

[–]AlexNotReally1 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

you make it sound like it’s relatively easy to pick up a milf though, unless it is and i’m just looking in the wrong places

[–]ElectricBugs 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

As an older woman, 41, this is the way. I'm smashing all the hot young things. I don't want a relationship. Young guys appreciate my directness and willingness to do things younger girls don't. I give great BJs. It's the life.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Lol you go girl (Martin voice).

Just curious are your married friends jealous?

[–]ElectricBugs 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

A little. Lol. I never had a slut phase. I married the first guy I fucked and literally only had 2 dicks by consent until last year. Then a switch flicked and I got it on. Probably close to 120 now

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Wow. Just be careful about the usual STDs and stuff.

[–]ElectricBugs 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, I'll get flack for this, but I'm not as careful as I should be. I like it. I'm living my life.

[–]AstronautLoveShackGuess WHOOOO 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I married young and didn’t have my slut phase till 40. 5 men in a year and then I met my husband. He was the sixth and then I went back to being monogamous.

[–]Pilling_it 8 points9 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

What you should realize is that there are tons of older women that are single, lonely and desperate.

Sorry to break it to you dude, but if the woman took care of herself and is only looking for casual, she still have plenty. If looking for ltrs you don't exist on the radar. And even then it speaks nothing of standards.

When I was younger and was broke, under 6 feet, and more towards the beta side, I had trouble myself.

You gotta cash in how to grind out that height, you'd make gold.

Seriously, your whole post feel like a revenge fantasy. But if you're going to look for women that want you for the status, don't be surprised if that's all you find.

Also they really just want to use you to feel like they stills got it.

Fun fact, a woman doesn't need to fuck you to get that validation.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Seriously, your whole post feel like a revenge fantasy.

How so? I merely pointed out a way for guys to get laid.

[–]FancyCocktailOlive 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, you encouraged men to use older women as sex objects and you dehumanized older women.

[–]Pilling_it 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The whole premise is revenge fantasy tbh

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

but if the woman took care of herself and is only looking for casual, she still have plenty.

Take a look around, most people don't take care of themselves and women tend to put on a ton of weight after they've had kids.

[–]Pilling_it 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do these people actually matter to the ones complaining though ?

[–]prizefighterstudent 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It really depends on what you're looking for.

If you want to get your rocks off, then for most guys, the standards are pretty low. Young, old, fat, skinny, rich, poor. The types of guys who get laid because they like sex are usually the happiest -- you won't find them on this sub.

Unfortunately, it's not that simple for many, including myself. Because if it was really about getting your rocks off, you'd just watch porn or fuck a 3 and call it a night. Sex, and particularly casual sex in the West, is primarily about validation -- both for oneself and from others.

I banged a few really attractive girls right out of high school. The physical experiences themselves were alright (you're 18 so anything is good) but it was the social experience of being with them, being seen with them, and knowing that I was "worthy" of an attractive person's affections that really satisfied me. Even if you don't consistently hook up with hot girls, the emphasis on body count for men under 25 is still somewhat prevalent. It's because it's not about the physical action of sex for many men -- it's about what that sex means in the social hierarchy and how one perceives themselves when they get it.

So just "banging older women" certainly satisfies the former need, but doesn't satisfy the need for intrinsic and social approval conferred by sex with younger women. Younger women tend to be hotter, more carefree, and less inclined to date for things like money and status -- they're attracted to people based off how they feel, and often that's physical attraction. This fulfills that need for validation, and is the reason that sex with older women doesn't quite do the same.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's why I wrote specifically about guys just wanting sex. It was also a good boost for me because as I've said I was able to bang hotter older women then I could've gotten otherwise.

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Perfectly stated.

[–]lemoncurdmacaron 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, those old women looking for no strings attached want the younger guys.

[–]thetruthishere_Chads Pay Me 4 points5 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Many older women are not desperate, we just like younger men because the have harder dicks and not wrinkly/sagging.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Well I don't think my dick is sagging yet, but yes younger guys will tend to have harder dicks. Older guys can have dicks just as hard but he has to work at it. A lot of cardio and endurance exercises. It won't be natural like it is with younger guys.

[–]thetruthishere_Chads Pay Me 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

I was talking about wrinkled faces and sagging man boobs.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

You literally also said harder dicks

[–]thetruthishere_Chads Pay Me 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

And?

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I here you. Do yo thing.

[–]John_OakmanLVM advocate 5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

If LVMs can't even manipulate those who don't know better due to lack of experience, what makes you think they can get luckier with those who do know better due to their experience?

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

What makes you think they need to manipulate women into anything? Those Older women just want to get off.

Besides I'm talking about something that I actually did IRL.

[–]FancyCocktailOlive 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Having sex with one older woman is not “killing it with older woman.”

I can tell you that my panties are very dry after encountering your comments and I haven’t even hit menopause yet. You’re so unappealing reading your comments may have destroyed my ability to naturally lubricate.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I believe I mentioned 3 different women in my posts.

Also didn't know I was supposed to try and make girls wet with comments. This is Reddit where we are anonymous, not IG.

[–]Glass_BucketPurple Pill Man 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Why would an older woman, who's used to guys with lots of experience, want a young inexperienced guy?
Not to mention older women are typically a LOT more picky, they care about things like status and money a lot more than young women do

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because the younger doesn't have a beer belly, bald head, erectile dysfunction and baggage from past relationships

[–]Barneysparky 4 points5 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

My husband dated a 50-something French woman before we met, she was the owner of a bed and breakfast he stayed in, and sparks flew. I saw her in a film we were watching once, stunning looking/classy woman.

He definitely attributes "making him a man" to his time spent with her. When he spoke about her it was with the utmost respect.

I doubt very much guys without the ability to respect women would be bedded by women of her calibre. The woman who would pick a gym rat who is dismissive, at best will have a never-ending box of wine in her fridge.

Also, there are VERY few older women willing to have sex with young men. They exist but if you are all looking for them it will be harder to find one then a real woman on Tinder.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I find it more interesting that he was even able to tell you about her. If I talked about another woman my wife would probably stab me.

Also, there are VERY few older women willing to have sex with young men.

I disagree with this. I did it Myself plenty of times and I know plenty of other guy that done it.

[–]Barneysparky 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I think you answered your question. We live very different lives. We rarely raise our voices at each other, nevermind use physical violence.

If we had the chance to meet her today I'd love to thank her! Because of her input, my husband was an attentive lover.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Wow I never heard something like that before. That is very mature of you.

Are you not jealous to hear about it?

[–]Barneysparky 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

We were 30 when we met, so yes maturity has everything to do with it. Everyone has a past, I'm thankful my husband had a positive experience.

What is there to be jealous of, he married me because we were completely compatible!

[–]ApplesauceThegod 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

We have to stop equating respecting women with being good at getting women because of that was really true then so many good guys would have more luck in so many crazy dudes or abusive dudes wouldn't have any luck at all

And that's how you know a lot of women really don't understand their own attraction or men because I know so many dudes who will be disrespectful to a girl and still pick that girl up

So much of what women will call toxic masculinity is exactly what they're attracted to and I always hated when a woman would say you just have to respect women because it's like counter to reality

I'm a 25-year-old dude who has had a lot of success with older women and I do not really view myself as that much of a catch as I still have no house or car but I have always been socially Savvy and can hold a conversation.

The only thing I can think of is that I have grown in my looks a lot as I get compliments almost every day from my customers.

But that right there kind of proves to me that you could have all the right personality and mental skills but if you don't have the look then it doesn't matter

I'm literally a guy who has been the same openly emotional and understanding dude since I was a kid and the only thing that changed from age 18 to 25 was that I grew in my looks

[–]Barneysparky 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Quality and quantity are not the same things.

[–]ApplesauceThegod 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Huh?

Where did I say that

[–]AcanthocephalaNew947 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I hate to break it to you but this is already a very well known thing.

And if a dude wants to mutually use an older woman no harm no foul.

Why you’re choosing to make it sound so skeevy is a mystery to me.

I mean if I’m young I can mutually use and older man and get my bills paid and nails done, it’s a known concept, again is what it is but if I’m like:

“Hey y’all get money from these old men. I had one dude buy me a car and another bought me new clothes every week, if you cry they just hand you money, these men will try to act better than you cause they’re older, also they want to use you to feel like they still got it. Older men are good for that because they are desperate, some dumb podcast told them we wanted them, use it to your advantage.”

I just sound bitter and vengeful.

[–]ruboyuri 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The ones complaining ? I dunno about that — you do have to leave the house to get laid, because an older women isn’t going to fuck in a dank gamer den or with someone’s parents around. And they also have to be able to hold a conversation and dress……not badly

Other than that, sure, have at it. There’s still standards though

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well I did try to dress nice, learned how to have conversations and be interesting, but was still struggling and dealing with a lot of bull shit with girls me own age. Yet was somehow killing it with older women. Didn't even have my own place, I went to their place or they paid for a hotel.

[–]ruboyuri 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good for you. All I’m saying is that “lower” doesn’t mean “zero”, which is what you know some guys are going to interpret it as

[–]ResponsibilityKey427 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Women in general don’t sleep with unattractive guys.

So I have a hard time believing you are getting these hot ig potential milfs but can’t get a young hot girl at all.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well if I was going to come on here and make up stories I would have thought of something better.

[–]JumboJetz 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know that many young men will find older women much easier. But it can happen. A few weeks ago I had this 50something year old very interested in a sexual relationship and if her pics were accurate I’d have gone for it. They weren’t. She looked much worse when sending selfies so I couldn’t do it.

[–]AstronautLoveShackGuess WHOOOO 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Most women don’t want much younger guys. They want men their own age or slightly older. Younger men are not generally in the same place in life as older women and women are pretty pragmatic in their desire for stability and security. You won’t get that from a younger man.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Did you even read my post?

[–]AstronautLoveShackGuess WHOOOO 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, it said “use older women for sex until you can get younger women.” Aside from the general grossness of using people for sex, I don’t think a lot of older women would be down for being used that way for a kid who was not someone she should hope for a future with.

[–]Bekiala 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't doubt that this might work for a few younger guys/older- women but I doubt many older women would want this. I would think most older women would want more time with their children or grandchildren not time with some stranger who just wants sex. However humans are a diverse groups so someone somewhere would want this.

[–]Specialist-Action-33Posionous Pill 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Older women can be just as picky as the younger ones. Difference they are at the point where they have their lives together (house, car, etc.), but also have more baggage, like past relationships and kids, something you're going to have to be prepared to work around, unlike a younger woman with less of it. Most men are simple and don't want to deal with with women who have extras, such as her coming off a bitter divorce.

They weren't exactly what I wanted but I was getting laid at least. I also was able to get hotter women then I could have gotten with younger girls.

Glad to know that it worked for you. Ngl, some older women do look attractive. When I was in my early 20's, a lot of those older women have said I was too young for them, and wanted men closer to their age.

So I ask you younger guys why are you wasting your time with younger girls that don't want you when you could be "dating" an older woman?

Some older women are more like "My way or the highway" style. A lot of younger men don't want to deal with that. Also, a lot of older women have kids that are about the same age as you, if not younger. It would be awkward, let alone an inconvenience having her kids around.

These older women really want an older HVM and they're only settling for you. In fact I think that you are just a pawn which she's hopelessly trying to use to make the HVM jealous. However since it's just about sex you shouldn't care too much.

You shouldn't take them seriously to begin with. If they are sleeping with a younger man at the age they're at, chances are she has a moderately high n-count, and you're just another body to her. Shes good for sex, but I'd be a fool if I considered her LTR material.

Also they really just want to use you to feel like they stills got it.

Again, more than likely she was promiscuous when she was younger, and using younger men for her validation that she can still get whoever she wants. I doubt she feels that men her age will want to take her seriously. For younger men, theres not much benefit dating an older woman except for sex.

Edit: Like another comment mentioned, would an order woman be seen as a preditor dating a young guy?

[–]FancyCocktailOlive 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

“Men are simple.” 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

“Men don’t have baggage.”

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[–]Specialist-Action-33Posionous Pill 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

most men are simple.

And where did I say men don't have baggage?

Two misquotes there. Nice try though.

[–]vanishingly-orca 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

For getting laid? Sure. Then some old broken down woman is fine for that. I've dated older women, and although the idea that they have money seems to either require daddy.gov or husband.ex, or credit-card-debt.swipe, that does not necessarily translate to a relationship. Are you really going to start a family with a 45 year old former bar floozie who has been through the divorce ringer? Because that's pretty much what's out there.

Despite that women prefer the top percentage of men, the rest of the men want relationships. They'd be perfectly happy with a regular girlfriend. The top percentage of men at the bar want the casual bang. Most everyone else would be happy banging one particular girl who they liked.

Again, some temporary fun of two desperate people trying to stave off depression from loneliness and regret of mistakes? That can work I suppose, until something better shows up.

I will challenge your first premise out of the gate. There's this constant narrative of "men are complaining....", "men are whining..."

Which sounds good. As a long time lurker I don't see so much complaining, as it is people pointing things out.

If some guy says, "women want guys over 6'", I don't see it followed by "and I'm only 5'2" and lonely why do these evil women not want me?!?!?!?". I just see the point that women prefer taller men.

That's not a complaint, that's a reality.

Much like my previous statement saying older women's income sources aren't from their hedge fund management bonus, it's primarily debt or government money or whatever guy she divorced for the money.

That's not a "complaint", that's a reality. Oh sure, there's plenty of women sitting in cubicles living paycheck to paycheck too, but if I say that, am I complaining about that?

It does point out that the appearance of "wealth" does not line up with reality, unless you're quite young, and she's recently got her alimony.

So lots of times the assumption is it's a complaint from loss when it's just stating facts, which, "right or wrong", the RP dorks do.

But ignoring that first sentence, the inherent problem with younger men is having sex with grand ma sounds good that she has needs. I had two older women hit on me recently when I was out, and although flattered, I wasn't interested. They had that same desperate look usually reserved for angsty teen boys.

No young person is going to want to have delusions of family dreams with grand ma. Sex is great and all, but what's the long term on that? Gonna take her out, get validated by friends and family? Parent like the idea of their kids not having grand children and welcome their equal as a new daughter?

Additionally, I look forward for all the declared blue pills here to have absolutely no problem with this idea, but if a man suggests younger women should consider dating older men, it's all predator this, and "can't handle a real woman" that, and "takes advantage of a naive 25 year old", and "power differentials", as if women, reported to mature much earlier than men, are possibly naive about dating an older man and have zero power and sexual agency. Because that's pretty insultingly saying women are absolutely stupid.

But an older woman? Well, she's just a victim. No predation there.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well I just said I dated one woman that was rich. I didn't say they all have money.

No young person is going to want to have delusions of family dreams with grand ma. Sex is great and all, but what's the long term on that?

Well I think I said until you can build up enough status to get a younger girl.

[–]FancyCocktailOlive -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why are you encouraging pedophilia? You shouldn’t be going after girls at all, let alone young ones.

[–]Over_Noise3530 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Older woman probably does not have a hedge fund, but she can afford food better than ramen noodles and actual furniture for her house/apartment, and a car in working order that has insurance. Those are more than a lot of young guys have

[–]Neptune-Jr 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I would love to bang cougars where do single ones usually hang out at?

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Country and Wine Bars Upscale grocery stores like Whole Foods and Farmer's Market Dating sites like Eharmony, Match, amd and Cougars life Cruises

[–]Valuable-Marzipan761 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Doesn't sound much easier. I did ok with younger women when I was young but would have loved to attract an older woman back then!

Although depends how old we're talking about.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Mostly just late 30's.

[–]Valuable-Marzipan761 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Sounds hot.

[–]FancyCocktailOlive 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sounds like he’s lying and the fact he says late 30s is old sounds like a neg to me.

MAGA Latino obviously didn’t have a good male role model growing up. I bet his dad was a loser.

[–]Valuable-Marzipan761 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Really depends how old he was at the time.

[–]Username141721 -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

And you will get herpes.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Are the younger girls any safer?

[–]smallstarseekerDogs don’t deserve us. ❤️ 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Several billion people have oral herpes. If you are active, you are going to get it... it's just a mater of time.

Really no point in worrying about it.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

OK good point.

[–]FancyCocktailOlive 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

“Just use older women.” “Just prey on older women.”

Fuck you MAGA Latino.

As an older woman I don’t want younger men, especially for casual sex because I don’t want casual sex.

Also, if I did it wouldn’t be with an ugly, poor and immature younger man who watches porn when there are plenty of attractive, financially secure men my age and up to 10 years old who also watch porn BUT learned to have sex and pleasure a woman before Internet porn became widely available.

Younger guys who can’t get laid should just improve themselves until they can attract an age appropriate partner.

Older women also are tired of men. We don’t really want men anymore because most don’t pull their weight in relationships and are entitled, younger men especially.

I’d take an older silver fox Gen X any day over a shitty pornsick Millennial or Gen Z who just wants to use me to get his dick wet.

Also, if the silver fox Gen X has erectile dysfunction he probably has a Viagra prescription, which means a great deal more fun.

Not only that, but men my age will at least be able to pay for dates and grew up in an era where they were happy to treat a woman they liked to a nice dinner, a getaway and/or a nice gift.

They’re also much better conversationalists because once again, they grew up in an era where people did all their socializing in person AND we’re more likely to have the same tastes in music, movies, politics and TV AND we’ll understand the same pop culture references and slang.

Our kids will also be similar ages, and we’ll be in similar stages of life and have similar priorities.

Really MAGA Latino, you must be smoking crack and suffering from crack psychosis if you believe us older women are desperate to be pump and dumped by ugly losers just because they’re younger.

Give me a dual or triple density high-end dildo and a good vibrator or suction toy over a younger male.

The only reason I would have to get together with a man at this point in my life would be for companionship, love and affection, not just sex. But again, if I did want just sex, it’s not going to be with a young, ugly, broke loser.

[–]prettymuchredpilledRed Pilled Black Man 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Young guys that can't get laid should just get a job and buy a (legal) hooker. Nevada, Mexico, UK, Netherlands, Germany, Austria, Japan, South America, etc. The world is your oyster.

[–]EnteFetzBlackpill Man 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I can confirm what you are saying. I've been on dating apps for years and only went for girls my age or younger and almost never got anywhere with them. Last year I did not manage to get even one kiss despite going on 6 first dates. This year I decided to just stop chasing young girls and went for older women. I am 27 so this meant I swiped right on lots of women aged 30 to 40. I did not care what they looked like because a hot 40 year old still has lots of options, but chubby 35 year old women who are freshly divorced and just wants to get laid are easy to get on Tinder and Bumble.

This year I managed to have sex with 3 women above 35. One was my FWB for 3 months and another I am still seeing. Sure they are definitely not as sexy as the young chicks you all want, but I really enjoy being desired by these women. These three women realy lust over me and were enthusiastic about having sex with me. They also don't play any stupid games like all those 20 year old do. The first one wrote to me before our first date that she explicitly wants to get laid and if the date goes well she wants me in her bedroom. Knowing that she is already on board made the date much more fun and as soon as we got to her place the clothes came off and we shagged like rabbits. After meeting every other week for 3 months she decided to look for a husband again, but then I met my current FWB. She is overweight 36 and has 2 kids, twice divorced. But she has massive tits and is horny as fuck. We matched on Bumble and she was straigt forward that she just wants to have sex with me and sent me nudes before our first date. Then I went to her place and of course we went almost straight to fucking. Something that I have never managed to do with a girl who was younger than me. We have now met several times and even though she really is not pretty in any way, she really gives me a good time and begs me to cum inside her every time.

I fully recommend that if you as a below 30 year old struggle getting any attention from women below 30, just try out women above 30 and you will be pleasantly surprised.

[–]jackedsoon||| -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

If ur young(college age) and struggling then going for older wont help. Ur in the best possible environment to get laid/find ltr w girls ur age who r down for whatever. Cougars n milfs wont be easier.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Nah you couldn't be more wrong. I been to college. College girls didn't want a broke college student struggling to get by. They were all with older guys that were already established

Yet somehow was getting plenty from older women.

[–]jackedsoon||| 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Such bullshit. Thats the only age women dont GAF bout career salary job . Just love n vibes. They prioritise tingles this time. Grads and up tend to gonfor older late mid/late guys once they leave college. No 19yo is looking for established guys.

[–]FancyCocktailOlive 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

They used you as a dildo.

[–]Sudden_Difference500 -2 points-1 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I was never desperate enough to go for aunties. I can’t look them in the eyes and pretend to love them.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Well maybe it isn't for everyone. I just think it worked out for me even though it was just a temporary solution.

[–]Sudden_Difference500 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Of course, everybody is different.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I think it's a better solution for most then going overseas. Going overseas is nice but really just a vacation and because too expensive to do it often.

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I think long term it's better to go overseas, abroad you can actually get pretty younger women you can actually have a future with. So I would say for the short term to focus on older women but to never get serious with an older women.

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“Horny older women in your area! Ugly women need dick too! Click now!”

[–]houstongradengineer 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Or they can stop obsessing about being laid because sex without a care in the world is really just hollow, and a lot more complicated than an orgasm has to be.

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How many of the older women you got with had kids and/or were divorced?

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