Okay hear me out. I’ve often heard the sentiment (especially around the younger crowd aged 16-25), that it’s hard to have a genuine platonic relationship with a man because he’ll inevitably want to, or try to fuck.

You know the story. Girl starts talking to dude. He’s not bf material but great friend material. She enjoys his company, his jokes, recommendations etc. At some point after getting closer he pulls some nice guy shit, things blow up and they are never the same again.

A similar thing happened to my gf recently, and instead of my usual advice of “just wait til most guys grow out of following their dick” - which I estimate as 25 years + give or take - one pattern I’ve noticed causes me to ask the same question “Did he have other options?”

It’s always a resounding no. Men with other options for pussy don’t wait around for the clearly taken girl they have a friendship with and then ruin it with their dick.

So I propose this:

For women concerned with male friends always hitting on them. They’re never the guys getting tons of pussy. You want a genuine platonic friendship? It’s the players. The fun getting laid types that are the best bet.

Sure they might try to smash at first (that’s just default). But it will come early on, and they’ll gracefully accept the rejection and move on to smash other women.

They don’t get hung up on one girl cus they too busy fucking other women. Their abundance mentality ironically is what makes them the best candidate for a lasting and close friendship. Also there’s a lot of great insights she can get when he shares his thoughts about being with.

This is the secret.

Thoughts?