I'd say people don't even know what they want themselves...
I have been in some relationships where I told the girl: I don't want anythign else than sex to end up heartbroken from her cutting it up.
I have been in some relationships where I told the girl: I wan't a serious relation to realise 2 months later I only wanted to fuck her.
The same has happened to me from the other side. The problem is single people want one thing while the same person engaged in a relationship wants something else. The thing is, coming in the relationship, you always know the ''single person'' viewpoint but not the ''engaged person'' one. Soemtimes both personnalities wants the same thing while sometimes there is a disconnect.
Mattress Girl™ was about the point where I really had to take a step back and think about how I interact with women. What if I ended up with my own Mattress Girl situation?
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I'd say people don't even know what they want themselves...
I have been in some relationships where I told the girl: I don't want anythign else than sex to end up heartbroken from her cutting it up.
I have been in some relationships where I told the girl: I wan't a serious relation to realise 2 months later I only wanted to fuck her.
The same has happened to me from the other side. The problem is single people want one thing while the same person engaged in a relationship wants something else. The thing is, coming in the relationship, you always know the ''single person'' viewpoint but not the ''engaged person'' one. Soemtimes both personnalities wants the same thing while sometimes there is a disconnect.
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Mattress Girl™ was about the point where I really had to take a step back and think about how I interact with women. What if I ended up with my own Mattress Girl situation?
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Don't stick your dick in crazy.
Unfortuantly some have managed to redefine what 'crazy' isn't.
This is one case where you'd be better off listening to the extreme TRP types on what crazy IS...
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It was. But it moved from an equality of opportunity argument to an equality of outcome argument in the 80s and 90s.
You would probably like Camille Paglia. She's one of the old guard that doesn't throw out common sense and responsibility.
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