First know I am asking as a mid 20's MGTOW Christian that doesn't 100% believe every word of the Bible due to not believing in the firmament and the cosmic theology of that concept.

With that out of the way I realize that asking men to "go monk" is a social taboo of sorts and that biological urges can feel impossible to control. However I can't understand why Christian's that believe in red pill theory think marriage should be the first thing on the table when data point's to women often losing all interest in their man after 4-6 years in a relationship.

It seems like the perfect storm to set both Christian's involved up for falling into sin with resentment due to the woman not really wanting to have sex with their husbands anymore. And if this doesn't lead to divorce that happens %50 of the time due to the choice of women %80 of time, you then will likely be dealing with a quarrelsome wife and the bible is clear about how toxic that situation is.

Then the fact that marriage is a concession of God to provide an outlet for sin and often leads the Christian to put their spouse above God has me wondering how marriage can be recommended as the default life goal for Christians.

Finally there is the fact modern marriage gives woman most of the power and by default makes them head of the household. Red pill guy's can try holding frame all they want, but women know they have the final word granted by the power society gives them. Even if the woman is a good person that never intends to exploit the many legal weapons at her deposal. In the back of her mind she will see herself as the actual head of the house due to the legal power's marriage grants her.

In my personal experience from asking people what they thought of removing the government from marriage, only men seemed to think that was a good thing. From what I've gathered the number of girls that would be okay with removing the government from the marriage is basically zero and so it's become clear to me that women like the power the legal contract gives them.

So in effect it's not honestly possible for a man to be actually the leader as the sidebar here suggest while in bondage to a contract that gives the woman all the real power. And with that being the case then according to red pill theory the relationship is doomed because the woman will lose all interest in the man she now controls.

I know some will suggest the Girl that has actually been transformed by the holy spirit as a unicorn that is different than the standard "Christian" Girl and the issue is that no matter how good she might be the result is the same with her being the actual power of the household that merely delegates power to her husband and can easily unleash the state upon him anytime she feels like it not unlike a queen can to her subjects.

Now personally I don't fully believe in red pill theory or AWALT, but I am MGTOW because at a young age I decided relationships weren't worth the endless trouble. Mainly posted this here because I believe marriage actually seems to cause more sin than it prevents for both Christians involved in the modern world.