I (23 M) am a single Christian guy, and I have heard from a lot of the Red Pill community that women are looking to be supported by the men they’re with and not have to support the men they’re with. It’s understandable, they want a husband not a child (at least not one as a husband). We are expected to be there for them and emotionally support our wives. As Christians, we are called to love our wives as Christ loves the Church.
I understand all of this, and am willing to do this, but what are we supposed to do when we need some emotional support? Because in most Red Pill communities, it seems like we could never go to our wives for it. They want us to be there for them, but not vice versa. Am I wrong here? If so, why? And if I’m not, what do we do?
Most people I hear just say, suck it up and be a man! That’s probably what we have to do most of the time and that’s fine, but it’s unsustainable being an emotionless robot and a human being.
Edit- Thank you everyone for the great comments, I could never go wrong by relying more and more on God. And community is something that has been a constant for the most joyful parts of my life, I know I need it, having a close group of guys to share life with is a treasure.
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