It has rightly been said that if a wife has completely lost attraction or respect for her husband, he will find it very difficult to succeed with any of this 'dominance' stuff. If things have sunk to the point of true "contempt", the marriage is in terrible trouble. You can tell by her tone and her attitude whether it is truly this far gone. However, if there is still a spark of attraction present, it is very possible to put a lot of this stuff into practice.

So what is the best way to get started? Well – it's simple really. You do it by starting small. By no means would we expect men to simply walk into their bedroom and initiate passionate, high-Testosterone sex with no lead-up and no testing of the waters first. Beginning steps are crucial. So how exactly do you get underway with this stuff?

STARTING WITH A KISS

As most of us know, even dying marriages allow for daily pecks on the lips between husband and wife. But men - this kiss will be a little different. The fact is, too many husbands plant “nice” kisses on their wives. Even outside the bedroom, I do not plant 'nice' kisses on her lips. I plant kisses with “intent” written all over them. And she enjoys it. It may sound like a small thing, but the easiest way to start this whole thing off is with a change in the way you kiss your woman. Stop being “Mr Nice.”

We have already looked at the enormous worldwide obsession from women over these tales of strong men – masculine and aggressive – ravishing the helpless female. We know that this fantasy is almost universal in women – even if she won't admit it. Sales figures and surveys do not lie. It is in her hormones – deeply ingrained in every fiber of her being. Now you are going to conduct your own “survey.” And you are going to see how she responds. But you are going to conduct it with a kiss.

So choose a moment when your wife is not too busy. And choose a private place in the house somewhere. Either lead her in there or catch her spontaneously. It does not matter. What matters is that you take her in your arms, pull her against your body (including the lower regions), and give her a luscious, quite-aggressive and passionate kiss on the lips. Hard and long. (Tongues are a good option). Let her take a breath and then do it again. Hopefully you will feel her beginning to respond. Make sure this is a kiss with Testosterone written all over it (in the lower regions as well). You can even lift her off her feet if you wish. (Another good option). Let her feel your strength.

How did she respond? Could you feel her beginning to enjoy the passion of it? This time you kissed her like a real man should. Like a man full of passion. Like a man in charge. And if you have sex with her the same way, she just might melt in your arms forever.

Now, it is up to you whether this is the right time to take it further. Maybe this kiss is just foreplay. Maybe you are going to kiss her like this five times that day and let her know to get ready for the night. Tell her something sexy and leave her thinking on it. Already you should see that she is beginning to like the way this is headed – even if she seems surprised at first.

And the exact same principle applies all the way down the line. It is so simple. It is so natural. All you are doing is simply co-operating with the Testosterone coursing through your body. And that is all you will ever need to do. Your Testosterone knows exactly how to dominate every bedroom session that it ever comes across – in the most sexy way possible. All you have to do is let it out. Just like you did with this kiss.

IMPORTANT NOTE: If your wife is not responding hardly at all to these kisses, and you know your relationship is in bad shape, I would definitely hold back from taking things any further until you can at least get a sexy kiss out of her. Sadly, in this kind of case you are clearly going to have to do a lot of work on yourself before you can even begin to succeed in this area. Getting her RESPECT back is item number one. Because it is simply not normal for women not to respond to these kinds of passionate kisses. My advice: Do not go further until the response is there. Just a warning – but a very important one.

BlushingWife wrote: “For me, what makes a kiss amazing is not the technique or the method, but the passion behind it. A long, passionate, erotic kiss makes me lose my breath and can even be better than sex.”

TxTwinDad wrote: “Kissing can be much more intimate than sex... If I give my wife a nice kiss in the morning as we get ready it is nice. If I give her a passionate, forceful kiss with lots of tongue, it melts her and lasts all day. She tells me she has flash backs to the morning's kiss like echoes all day long.”

PINNED TO THE WALL

So how do we ramp this up to another level? Well, we back her into the wall - pinning her there by her arms while we continue the kissing. A huge number of women LOVE this. Obviously, we don't “shove” her against the wall, but firmly push her against it in a way that feels strong yet not hurtful. Pin her hands above her head (most enjoy this). Let her feel your strength as you lean into her. Then kiss her aggressively on the mouth while you thrust against her with your pelvis. You will soon tell if she is responding or not. You might like to start pulling her clothes off, or command her to spread her legs, etc. Notice how “dominant” all this is.

Dagny wrote: “I love my husband grabbing a handful of me once in a while, or secretly pinning me to a wall in the laundry room for a thorough feeling up \lol* while the kids are in the other room. Funny thing is, I wouldn't have known it if he didn't give a try… So guys please, if you KNOW your woman, by ALL means don't be afraid to show off your strength…”*

Blush wrote: “He has no problem backing me against a wall, and again, using his quiet strength to hold my hands above my head while he 'prowls' my body which he claims ownership to. And in bed, it is a daily occurrence for him to hold my hands above my head while he leans over me, centimetres from my face while he recites what he wants. Very erotic, very masculine and very exciting… how can I not respond to his scent, his power, his dominance?”

Precious Baby wrote: “Mine just walked right into my life, swept me off my feet, made sure that I was madly in love with him, made sure that I felt loved, safe, and secure, and then slowly and methodically began to back me into walls, gently but very firmly holding onto me by my hair, pinning me to the floor with his weight and holding me down, pinning my hands above my head with one hand while he moves all over my body with his other, holding me tight and not letting me move, forcing me to look at him... I have never been happier nor felt more loved or secure than I do now with this man! Not ever!”

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Men - as always it would be great to hear your thoughts on Part 3 (above).