Someone from MRP recommended I crosspost here...

I'm out here legitimately courting women and not trying to fuck them. I have had 3 instances of this in the past month..

Attract HB9, I'm 25, she's 21, she is interested and kind of pedestalizing me because I'm attractive.

I be my charming, fun, intellectual self on our first date. Date goes really well. We talk for hours, laugh, move around. We make out at some point, and then again several more times. At the end I pick the girl up and make out with her, then depart to go to the gym or do my own shit.

Then it seems like shit just kinda fades. I text purely to organize our next date but they become indifferent, and it seems like interest actually decreases. Like with this most recent girl, last night we had rough plans to smoke and chill and then she texted me at like 8:30 saying she's "actually going to a haunted house, but am I still going out of town tomorrow?"

Me: "Yeah at like 7"

Her: "In the morning?"

Me: "Nah nighttime"

End convo last night. Then I call her this afternoon to see if she wants to go chill at a park before I leave and she says she has to do homework.

And same shit last week, great date, made out, connecting, then we were doing light texting the next day and I told her I'm free tonight and she just never responded. I didn't really give a fuck about her anyway though.

And last month, same shit with a girl I was getting romantic with.

I need to know how to kindle a LTR.

Granted, I'm spinning no less than 5 other plates begging for me to come through and fuck them on any given day, but it seems like I can't keep the girls that I actually like interested in dating after a first date. Does my text game suck? Am I seeming needy? Am I letting her get too comfortable? Do these girls just want me to be their Chad?

Please don't slaughter me for having oneitis man. I'm aware. I don't actually give a fuck if this girl never responds to me because there are a million other beautiful girls around but if there's something about my behavior which is the reason for this pattern I keep experiencing, I need to fix it.

Do I need to plan more eventful second dates? How do I get her excited?