Guys I'm taking my faith seriously now, having come from the redpill and all that after 7years. I truly want to change my ways, and align myself to God, detoxxing from porn and will strive to remain chaste for marriage.

One thing though, how do you know if you're AF or BB if you can't have sex until marriage. The women have technically made us wait before putting out, with the ball fully in her court. If she tries to have sex with me early on, tbh I'm not convinced she's taking her faith seriously. At the same time I don't want to be BB but I do want a healthy sexual marriage, striving to be the best version of myself.

Thanks RPChristians